Where to begin?

While I was born in the north of England, I consider myself an African. My parents relocated to South Africa in 1962 in search of a better life for us all. I was only three years old at the time and am the youngest of three siblings. Most of my memories of those early years come from the many old black and white photographs and cine films that my father was so fond of taking and that I now keep in a box under the stairs.
Our first home in Africa was in a small town called Newcastle in what is now known as the Province of Kwazulu-Natal. My father was a Civil Engineer and had been employed on contract by a British company called Woodal Duckham to build the coke ovens for the local steel industry. Looking at the old photos I see a small town with wide roads and low single story buildings. The roads are flanked by trees and many of them are only dusty gravel. It looks dry and rather uninspiring but I do vaguely recall friendly neighbours and a great community spirit.
Around 1964/5, when my father's contract came to an end and he took on a job with a local company, we moved to the bustling city of Johannesburg. It was here that he fulfilled a lifelong dream to build his own house in what was then a small and undeveloped suburb called Parkmore. It was a very open and friendly neighbourhood in those days with dirt roads and no fences between neighbours. We children had a pretty free life, wandering around the area at little risk and concern to our parents. There were lots of open fields around us and a river at the bottom of our road that all the children in the neighbourhood used to play and fish in. Some of my happiest childhood memories are of the times 'camping' out in the bush for the day with my best friend Mandy and my black labrador Sammy when we used to cook sausages on sticks over an open fire - they always tasted better burnt on the outside, raw in the middle and covered in ash! Parents were so much more laid back in those days - I can't imagine anyone giving a couple of 10 year olds a box of matches and a packet of sausages to play with these days?
Towards the end of 1969 we moved once again - this time to what was then known as Rhodesia. My father had suffered a major heart attack the year before and it was felt that he needed a less stressful job and life than the very busy city life of Johannesburg offered. If it hadn't been for the fact that Rhodesia was at the beginning of an escalating civil war over independence, I expect the choice of new domocile would have made more sense but never-the-less, I have only good memories of my teenage years.
In 1980 Rhodesia became Zimbabwe and my first son was born. In 1982 my father died from a massive heart attack and stroke with my first marriage breaking down shortly afterwards. I re-married in 1985, my second son came along in 1987, followed by a beautiful daughter in 1989. By then we were living on our own smallholding just outside Harare where I bred Arabian horses, had a few cows and chickens and grew a few vegetables. Life was good until Robert Mugabe sanctioned the land grab and the country errupted in violence, anger and hatred.
As the violence grew, it was decided that we would move to Zambia where my husband was already working on the second year of a road building contract. My mother had died the year before in 1999 leaving me feeling pretty desolute and bleak so I was happy for a change of scenery - at the time we believed it would only be a temporary move but as it turned out we ended up in Zambia for 8 years. Returning to Zimbabwe was not an option as we not only lost our home but also our permanent residence status due to our British(ness)!
So here we all are in Eastbourne in the UK! Who would have thought it likely? We've been here a year now and I am quite enjoying it but still . . there are times . . . when . . .
I dream of Africa!



















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