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I'm 37 yrs old, I was born in Louisiana and raised in Pennsylvania.

I have two children (grown teens) of my own and have had the privilege of raising two former step-daughters. Presently, it would appear that I have the opportunity to raise two young step-sons-

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Sciences > Sociology People-watching: More than a pastime: 9 of 24
A Marine First Sergeant once told me "Humans are the laziest animals on earth; they will always take the path of least resistance. Humans are also the oddest animals; if you watch long enough you'll be surprised at what they do!" Over the years I've found this to be true and put it into perspective as I carry out my daily du... More..
Religion & Spirituality > Self-Healing When life hits you hard: 54 of 139
For two years it seemed as though anything that could go wrong, would go wrong. I wanted to run and hide, cry, pout, and scream all at the same time. It seemed like everything was spinning out of control. I'd dodge one obstacle, only to be struck by an even larger one. In that two year period my father passed away suddenly, ... More..
Society & Lifestyle > Personal Morals & Values People are taking less personal responsibility for themselves today?: 33 of 75
We, as Americans, are a society who are taught at an early age to deflect responsibility because of civil liability. We, as Americans, are rewarded for not understanding without first being 'told' or instructed that a cup of coffee is hot when served. Case in point: the woman who sued McDonalds successfully when she spilled ... More..
Relationships & Family > Grief & Loss How does the death of a loved one affect you?: 57 of 119
The anniversary of my dad's death is quickly coming upon me as it does every year. My dad passed away the day after my birthday (March 31st). I remember the day as if it were yesterday. I remember the days leading up to it also. Dad's birthday is March 22nd, and for the last several years he called me or I'd call him in betw... More..
Relationships & Family > Dating Psychology Why some men like to date older women: 4 of 8
I started out my adulthood dating older women, I was even married twice to women who were atleast 6 yrs older than I. Upon my second divorce, I began sewing my wild oats. I tried dating younger, but that didn't work, then I went for my own age, and that didn't work. In and between I met a few ladies who were in their 40's an... More..
Politics, News & Issues > Police & Prisons Speed limits: Safety oriented or Arbitrary: 4 of 8
Speed limits are more safety oriented than arbitrary. When engineers design roadways, they determine the maximum speed at which a vehicle can travel on that roadway and remain on that roadway. This is based on surface materials and the average vehicle on the roadway. Ever notice an off-ramp with a posted speed limit of 25 mp... More..
Politics, News & Issues > Police & Prisons Why police officers can relocate after an unjustified shooting: 1 of 2
I have had the opportunity to work in four distinct juridictions in the last ten years. I made the first two decisions to relocate based on the needs of my family at the time; my wife and I wanting to relocate, then being offered a higher paying position. The last one was after an incident off duty that I won't go into here.... More..
Relationships & Family > Children & Divorce Divorce and children: Putting children first: 15 of 29
Some folks tend to think that divorce is an issue solely between a husband and a wife: it's not. Divorce has effects that lend themselves to the children of a divorcing couple. These effects are numerous and often immeasurable. The most important aspect of divorce is keeping the interest of the children at the forefront. If ... More..
Pets & Animals > Dogs (Other) How to cope with the loss of a dog: 42 of 81
His name was Sarge. He was a miniature Dachshund. He was the first dog I ever got to pick for my own. When I went to the breeder, unexpectedly, I was going because my wife wanted to just 'look' at the puppies. I didn't want a little 'weiner dog'! When our eyes met, I just knew that he was the dog/friend for me. And he was. S... More..
Food & Drink > Liquors & Spirits Favorite alcoholic beverages: 19 of 34
Captain Morgan original spiced rum mixed with Coke. Aye, matey I sailed away with Captain Morgan numerous times. I've tried to abandon ship on him many times. More often than not, I'll be sitting there bantering with the locals and I'll look up at the liquor shelf and he'll be standing there with his foot on the barrel, gazi... More..