: About Me

I am a 30 year old woman who has had her share of experiences in life. From marring young and having children, to divorce and remarriage. I grew up the Basketball Cheerleader and was somewhat popular in school. I have moved so many times that I know what it is like to be the new kid in town. I have had my share of jobs, from fast food to Accountant. All with no school background, I moved my way up from an eagerness to learn from others and work as a team.
I am currently a "Domestic Engineer". I stay at home with my soon to be 3 month old daughter and have visitations with my other two children from my previous marriage. I devote my time to currently fixing my marriage which is very new. I have experienced infidelity, to actually doing the the infidelity myself, but never when I was married. I also have two ex-wife's to deal with in my current relationship and my divorced relationship.
I can say I knew what it was like to shine, be in the spotlight and know how to perceive myself to others.
During my childhood I have seen and done things that I wish most kids these days were not exposed to. I have the parents that you do not wish to introduce to others out of shame and embarrassment for how they are in their lives. I have seen what drugs can do to a person, and that is one experience I have never ventured upon.
I have also experienced "panic attacks" in my past and fading away in the present. I know who to control them and what to look for when they try to interfere with my life. At one point in time I was begging to go to the emergency room every night for 1 year until I sought help from a professional.
For the most part I am a happy person. I love my children and don't take for granted the things I do have, someone always has it worse.
And that's me!

Relationships & Family > Cheating Spouses & Affairs Things to do if you find out that your significant other has been cheating?

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There is no right way to handle a cheater. In life we are all tempted to stray but the real test is when it actually happens. We all hear "Leave him or her" when to us it is not that simple. Our hearts have been broken, betrayed, and trust broken. I can only share my experience with in hopes that this NEVER happens to anyone. When I found out that my partener was cheating I was crushed. How could the person I vowed to love and have children with do this to me! I had given everything to this person; love, respect, trust, and above all a child. I was six months pregnant with his child and al...

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