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I am a Life Coach and Author of the Inspirational/Self Help book "Death of a Drama Queen"

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Religion & Spirituality > Christian Beliefs & Culture Are the Christian Gospels really good news?: 3 of 86
Yes, the gospels are good and even GREAT news. The problem is, in my opinion, that I ...and I believe most Christians do not believe or apply the truth of the gospels! That is why nonbelievers do not want what we have or see much evidence of the good news in our lives!I think we spend too much time in performance oriented wor... More..
Relationships & Family > Domestic Violence & Abuse Surviving domestic violence: 8 of 88
I was a child of domestic violence. I am 55 years of age and still suffer almost daily from the residue of those early years. I have been fortunate enough in recent years (through counseling) to be able to quickly recognize when those abusive patterns show up in my current life.I always say it was not the hand, the fist, or e... More..
Religion & Spirituality > Religious Speculations & Criticisms Does God hate gays?: 8 of 70
Does God hate gays? Please tell me you are kidding!Although brought up in very strict Southern Baptist home, I, by knowing gay people, have certainly altered my opinion in this matter. In fact, I realize I never had my own opinion but was carrying on what I had been taught by generations before me.I loved Billy Graham's reply... More..
Society & Lifestyle > Personal Morals & Values How to build courage: 1 of 8
The Power Of Courage To Change Our Lives:I love the serenity prayer.God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.About a month ago I was asked to speak for a women's group at a rehabilitation center. In preparation I kept thinking ... More..
Arts & Humanities > Philosophical Concepts What is wisdom?: 6 of 44
Wisdom is so powerful...it changes lives and destinies. In a moment, clarity comes and something you have tried to understand makes total sense. "You *always* seem to know just the right words to say to help me sort things out" If you have ever said that or had it said to you then you understand the power of wisdom. Wisdom co... More..
Creative Writing > Memoirs Testimonies: I'm the black sheep of the family: 8 of 53
I am proud to tell you that I was always labeled the black sheep! The truth is, all black sheep know something is off in the family. They may drink, they may have multiple marriages, or make unhealthy and harmful choices BUT the black sheep is simply the squeaking wheel. Believe it or not, when the black sheep starts getting ... More..
Health & Fitness > Depression Self-help steps toward overcoming depression: 4 of 24
I suffered with depression for almost 20 years! I really believe at the base of depression is shame...and shame causes isolation and isolation is what kept me from going for help.I was ashamed that I could not appreciate my life. I just did not understand where all of these thoughts and hopelessness was coming from. I just co... More..
Religion & Spirituality > Setting Life Goals Perseverance succeeds only with clear goals in mind: 1 of 6
Have you ever noticed when watching a baseball game that the umpire does not change his mind when the crowd begins to yell in the stands behind him, disagreeing with his call? No, he sticks with his original call unmoved by the "voices" around him.That, to me, is a metaphor for perseverance, and sticking to goals. It is very ... More..
Style & Beauty > Fashion Trends & Styles Plus size wardrobe essentials for winter: 1 of 6
This winter we plus sized gals will have some great ideas to choose from. Layering is always fun IF we use layering to work FOR us rather than covering ourselves up and appearing too bulky.Thin layers actually created more warmth for the body so why not wear a close fitting turtleneck and top it off with a vest. Be careful wh... More..
Religion & Spirituality > Christian Doctrine & Issues The church's look at women: 9 of 45
Submission vs IntimidationI would like to say that I believe the role of wives submitting to their husbands has been taken WAY out of context to keep women from flowing in the gifts they offer to their husband and the body of Christ.When my husband makes a decision I will often get that quiet nudge from my Spirit telling me t... More..