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Writing for me is the one thing that can calm all storms given time. It is a way to learn, listen, speak, share and heal. The subject is not as important as the time and the thought put into the work. Hopefully, it gets better with age.

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Relationships & Family > Elderly Parents & Care Tips for "being there" for your elderly parents: 1 of 17
Parents don't want to have the role reversal that sometimes comes with age. All of sudden it seems like their children are taking care of them. The key is to give them dignity and independence and yet make a difference in small ways where you can and when you can. ~ Snail Mail ~ A letter or card in the mail is an easy thing ... More..
Relationships & Family > Marriage & Divorce (Other) Can second marriages work?: 6 of 87
You have decided you are going to give it another try. Your first marriage didn't work out so swell, but you survived. According to statistics you have about a 30% chance of success. So what can you do to improve the odds? Here are some ideas that will at least give you food for thought. 1. Teamwork is an essential ingredien... More..
Relationships & Family > Communication Skills Developing social skills in shy children: 2 of 28
Shyness can be an extremely painful situation for a child. In the beginning shyness is not a trait children choose. It can be worked on, but for children it can come as a basic part of their personality. Many shy children develop issues with self-esteem and may have problems in school. These children tend to be too nervous t... More..
Relationships & Family > Male / Female Communication Styles Why do women cry?: 2 of 23
Yes, women cry. And women cry for many different reasons. In the beginning boys and girls cry about the same amount of times. At the age of 12 things begin to change. Studies say that by adulthood women cry as much as four times more often than men. Basal tears Basal tears are constantly forming in our eyes. They are used to... More..
Relationships & Family > Marriage Psychology How resentment can destroy a marriage: 3 of 34
How resentment can destroy a marriage At first glance it's easy to say, "There really isn't resentment in my marriage." Actually, it's an active ingredient in most relationships. We may label it differently, but it is there. Let's take a look at some specific examples and some ways to cope with the situation. You can trace m... More..
Relationships & Family > Coping with Divorce Considering divorce: How to deal with doubt: 2 of 21
Things in the marriage are a little rough. No one seems to be happy. Everything the couple has done to help seems to have gone flat. Perhaps some of the basics like trust, love, and communication skills are all under fire. So what is keeping the ring on the finger? Is it just doubt? Maybe by reviewing some possible fears and... More..
Relationships & Family > Friendship Advice What makes a healthy friendship?: 5 of 36
Friendship is an important part of life. It is possible to make it through life with few or no friends, but it is a rough and rocky road. Having healthy friendships in your life can benefit your emotional health, your physical health, your mental health and your basic happiness. What are some tools to help make sure you have... More..
Relationships & Family > Coping with Divorce After a divorce: Tips for dealing with anger: 4 of 28
A divorce is a death of a relationship. The family dynamics are changed forever. You are angry. 1. Understanding that anger is a normal part of a divorce is paramount. Who is angry? Think of it as a large boiling pot of emotions. There are many people involved. It goes far beyond you and your spouse. You may have to consider... More..
Relationships & Family > Elderly Parents & Care Day care and elder care: How could bringing these two services together benefit both?: 7 of 45
Daycare and elderly care compliment each other. They can easily be designed so the needs of both groups are met. It can be a flourishing business that creates a harmonious community. What is in it for the seniors? *Improved physical and mental heath Having a reason to get up in the morning and a job to do is a healthy situat... More..
Relationships & Family > Family (Other) Traps to avoid while caring for a chronically ill family member: 1 of 6
Dealing with a chronically ill family member can become all consuming if family members allow it. Somehow there has to be balance in the family. The family members that are well are the ones who can help create and maintain the balance. Here are some practical tips that we all know, but sometimes forget. 1. We can be of no h... More..