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I am a thirty-something mother of three who has just relocated to the "Heart of Dixie" in Southern Alabama, after being born and raised in New York State. I am finally at a point in my life where I can focus on my passion for writing. I have written many short

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Society & Lifestyle > Personal Morals & Values Which would you rather have: Courage or wisdom?: 3 of 26
You may be filled with wisdom and knowledge, but if you lack courage and ambition, you may never accomplish your goals. In order for someone to have courage, they must first believe in themselves. Good self-esteem and a feeling of self-worth are not always easy to find when you look in the mirror. You need to believe yourself... More..
Relationships & Family > Tips for Marital Happiness How to be the perfect wife: 10 of 52
The idea of what a "perfect wife" is supposed to be varies in each relationship. Everyone is different so if you are truly compatible with your partner, it isn't an impossible feat to achieve. Wives have their own expectations of what a perfect wife should be, as do husbands. It's important to know each other's expectations. ... More..
Society & Lifestyle > Personal Morals & Values How to tell if you are successful in life: 8 of 33
Being successful in life is determined by the levels of success in the many facets of our lives. Since every individual is different, and the title of this article is "How to tell if YOU'RE successful in life," several questions must be considered in making the conclusion:Have you been able to overcome negavity in your life, ... More..
Relationships & Family > Family Dysfunction When mothers hide father's identity to children: 4 of 16
Becoming a mother was something I had been ready for. I was 25, had a good job, owned my own home and pickup truck, and my fiance begged me to go off the pill and give him a son. He promised he would work two jobs so I could stay at home. He also promised his divorce would be finalized before our son was born. Then I found ou... More..
Relationships & Family > Domestic Violence & Abuse Cycle of pain and hurt: The anatomy of abuse: 3 of 12
The cycle of abuse is so hard to break because sometimes it is difficult to recognize abuse in the first place. In some cases the abuse is not physical, but emotional. Nonetheless, absent physical bruises, the abuse can be just as damaging and traumatic. In these situations, victims of abuse may not even realize that they are... More..
Society & Lifestyle > Political Values State assistance and treatment of those who use it: 3 of 10
Once upon a time, I had a great job, owned my own home and a new truck. I was barely able to pay all of my bills, but I was successful in the eyes of others. I was 25 and my fiance and I decided to have a baby. What I didn't count on was him cheating on me. We broke up before I found out I was pregnant. I was horrified that I... More..
Religion & Spirituality > Setting Life Goals Make today the start of your new life: 3 of 9
Some people wake up each day feeling disillusioned and overwhelmed. When they look in the mirror, they are reminded of their failures and faults. This is especially true for those who have negative people in their lives. It never occurs to them that they have the power within themselves to stop going through the motions o... More..
Relationships & Family > Family Life Living away from loved ones: 9 of 20
What do you do when your troubled pre-teen son no longer wants to live with his mother, stepfather, and two sisters? Family conseling hasn't worked, and his violent outbursts and tantrums have escalated. Do you allow him to go stay with grandma, who gives him whatever he wants, which has caused most of his behavior problems i... More..
Relationships & Family > Parents Family problems caused by meddling parents: 13 of 28
Meddling parents, who do not respect or have faith in their own children, often cross boundaries that should never be crossed. It is this type of parent who uses criticism, manipulation, and threats to gain and keep control over their adult child, or children. "I'll disown you if you...live in a trailer, date a black man, let... More..
Celebrations & Holidays > Celebrations & Holidays (Other) Non-religious Good Friday traditions: 3 of 6
Traditions are certain customs or beliefs that are passed on from one generation to the next. Some families have traditions for holidays such as Christmas and Easter, but they are typically based on religious belief. This is true with Good Friday. It is a symbolic day for all religions so mostly any tradition a family may hav... More..