: About Me

Hi, I am Ian, 46 years old, extremely happily married to Lisa. We live in Stoke on Trent in the UK. I have six children at home ranging fron 15 to 2yrs old, 3 boys and 3 girls. I usually write about relationships and personal developement, although I have recently been writing some articles on certain religeous aspects. I have a passionate interest in Music and Art, which take up most of my spare time. I currently run my own vending business with my wife, and have spent 15 years in counselling and personal developement. Our children all school at home so things are generally fairly busy, but we all work as a team together and enjoy life.

My passion is ...

My wife, music, writing and art. (And God of course)

I know too much about ...

everything

My parents always told me ...

to work hard and enjoy life.

My childhood ambition ...

rock star

My favorite memory ...

Meeting Lisa for the first time

Why I write ...

I like to talk and pass on stuff.

What I am reading/watching/listening to ...

The bible, casting crowns

My first job ...

Farming

My best moment ...

Getting Married

My inspiration ...

Yahweh

Relationships & Family > Marriage & Divorce (Other) Why do relationships fail

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Who Comes First? Often there are many reasons why a relationship fails; one person cheats on another or the shine goes off what you had as a couple, when you first met and what you had pictured your relationship being like isn't happening. Whatever the reason is, most of the time, if you have been the instigator in the failure of a relationship, it comes down to us. We are self-centred! We are not getting what we want from a relationship so we will either end it or be constantly looking elsewhere to find what we are looking for. And why do we need to do that? Could it be that our needs are...

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