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Native of Staten Island and born in August, this Lioness has a roar of her own. My career history includes shipping, garment industy (Disney Licensee) and brokerage. JP Morgan Trade Floor. I am fully retired as former HR Coordinator/Liaison from Bell Atlantic

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Celebrations & Holidays > Gift Advice Gifts that give back: 2 of 45
"Gift that give back" is indeed a most beautiful and profound phrase; yet, there are some gifts that simply cannot be wrapped with the brightest of ribbons. These gifts are selfless acts and small sacrifices which carry merit on a different level.A gift that gives back is the gratifying hug and smile of an elderly or disabled... More..
Relationships & Family > Children & Divorce Helping children of all ages deal with divorce: 3 of 35
What ever happened to the marriage vows: For better or for worse, till death do we part? Next to a life-threatening disease, divorce is the ultimate nightmare, especially for children of all ages. Toddlers do not process the word divorce. They only know that mommy and daddy are there for them as loving and protective parent... More..
Home & Garden > Cleaning (Other) What you can do with your spare time after you've hired a maid: 3 of 35
Time spent in the workplace, alone, comprises two-thirds of the average day, leaving very little time for relaxation, let alone spare time. Hiring a part-time maid could be the best investment, since spare time is now the criteria and the precious link with sanity.Housecleaning, food-shopping, cooking, laundry, driving the ki... More..
Arts & Humanities > Performance Dance Preparation for your first dance performance: 1 of 8
TAKE IT FROM THE TOP! Five, six, seven - EIGHT!The legendary Fred Astaire was reputed as the King of Dance and a demanding perfectionist as well. The routine was deemed ready by its 40th rehearsal, yet the 41st rehearsal determined the final level of "Astaire perfection." While this trait was commendable, it could also leave ... More..
Personal Finance > Retirement The joy of retirement: 3 of 22
The Inspired Retired At age 15 you probably began helping out in the family business. At 18 you were of legal age, found a job and have been working ever since. It's the only facet of life you know, can relate to and in which you are comfortable.You are now 65, just put in 25 years at the job and are officially considered "re... More..
Home & Garden > Cleaning (Other) What to expect when you hire a maid: 4 of 23
Hiring maid is like hiring a new employee. Whether full time or part time the job description must be clear and salary mutually negotiated and agreed to.A background and reference check is highly recommended since the first major concern is "trust." The eyes are the window of their soul. Subsequently, commitment, a good perso... More..
Religion & Spirituality > Ghosts & Paranormal Phenomena Witnessing the paranormal: 7 of 39

The Pearl EarringsNovember 1994:After several months of in and out of hospitals, it was decided that Mom's declining health would be best attended in a Rest Home. My extensive commute to and from work in Manhattan, coupled with household responsibilities, made it virtually impossible to give her the proper home care.I had jus... More..
Relationships & Family > Humor & Laughter Benefits of laughter: 9 of 49
"That's the best laugh I've had today."Those of us who were weaned on humor will affirm laughter is the recipe for reducing stress and the link which helps preserve our sanity during crisis.Laughter is a "vent" or "release" which actually makes one feel warm n' fuzzy, if only for a single moment.Hospitals are, perhaps, one of... More..
Health & Fitness > Disease (Other) Symptoms and treatment of yeast infection: 6 of 27
A yeast infection is every female's nightmare. Given the choice, women would rather be saddled with their mother-in-law for an entire weekend, than this demonic discomfort.SYMPTOMS: The persistent "itching" in the vaginal area; repeated attempts to scratch it only worsen the situation and promote further escalation upward. It... More..
Style & Beauty > Style & Beauty (Other) Is real beauty on the outside or the inside?: 40 of 175
We are taught "never judge a book by its cover." This is best defined by viewing our fellow-human's inner existence, rather than their outer layers.The newborn or unseen guest is welcomed with loving arms. This tiny, defenseless, small, sweet infant has arrived bald, toothless and sleeping after its nine-month journey, yet th... More..