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I have been a writer for helium since I was twenty three now four years later at twenty seven I am still here. I love to write and share my insight with others. My writing comes from my heart, not from some fancy degree. I am always looking to expand my horizons

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Relationships & Family > First Dates First date turn offs and mistakes: 1 of 10

First impressions are lasting ones, and the last thing that you want to do on a date is pass off a negative impression. Blind dates can be the worst experiences for some people. Because one, the date was either set up by friends are some chat service. Sometimes the dates are rude, obnoxious, and sometimes not easy on the eye...
Relationships & Family > Tips for Marital Happiness How to date your spouse: 3 of 25

You're not as flirtatious as you were at 18, and if one more thing on you sags you'll scream bloody murder. After having kids and being married for sometime it's hard to take out time for you and your significant other. It's never too late to rekindled the flames and start dating again... I mean with your spouse of course. T...
Relationships & Family > Break-Ups & Exes Tips for men on being rejected by women: 2 of 11

"Girl you must be tired, because you been running through my mind all day." "Baby are you from Tennessee? because you're the only ten I see." Using elemntary school lines on a girl that looks like she just walked off of a magazine cover will get you major rejection. Some guys are prepared for the worst, and then there are th...
Parenting & Pregnancy > Baby Accessories Top 10 must-have baby products: 9 of 28

Despite the mood swings, late night cravings, and excessive weight gain you can't wait to see your little bundle of joy. You've listened to your Aunt Betty Talk about how your Cousin Frank Weighed 20lbs and she went through 2 days of labor. You Have listened to your Grandmother's Remedies, and your Watched your mother's tear...
Relationships & Family > Break-Ups & Exes Getting back with your ex: 9 of 18

Sometimes the feelings you have for an ex girl or guy never leave. This can result in problems in a current relationship, and also you may find yourself longing to reconcile with that ex. Many people have gotten back with an ex and things were better than before, which means that they probably only needed time apart for thei...
Relationships & Family > Marriage & Divorce (Other) Love for sale: The case against mail order brides: 5 of 10

In this day and age there's no telling what new trends will plague society. It makes some of us wonder is marriage still a "sacred union?" In my opinion It's not the way it was when Harry met Sally. Mail order brides are becoming more and more popular as the cities get more high tech and the average male shorter on time. Som...
Parenting & Pregnancy > Parenting Teens He's lazy, she's a hard worker. But should you interfere with your daughter's relationship?: 2 of 4

As parents sometimes we tend to butt in... where we should butt out. We don't want our children to make the same mistakes that we did. Little do we know they won't, they will make their own and learn from them. We can't always be there for our kids to hold them by the hand. In the words of my mother "Just have to let go and ...
Jobs & Careers > Career Path & Goals Great ways to pursue a new career: 1 of 1

It is never really easy to step out of your comfort zone especially if you have been with a company for an extended period of time. However sometimes change can be good. Pursuing a new career can be simple there are a few things that you need to remember and the main factor is make sure the career you choose is something tha...
Relationships & Family > Romance & Sexuality 10 things that will make your guy smile: 12 of 21

All guys are not the same. Things that make one smile might make another one grimace or uncomfortable. You know your guy, you know the things that he likes, use those things you know and incorporate a plan to keep him smiling. 1) Don't be afraid to sit down and watch the game with him. *Throw on a jersey tie up your hair and...
Relationships & Family > Family Bonding The importance of family game nights: 5 of 8

These days everyone is so busy, and with everything being turned into technology gone are the days when families sat down and played "Battleship." There comes a time in the lives of children and teens, when they are most influential and more susectible to peer pressure and things like drugs and alcohol. A great wa...