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About me - Yvette Durham

I'll start with the basics- i'm 28, British, although married to an American Major in the US Army and we are currently living in the States. We have a baby boy, Alexander, who is our world.
I'm relishing the joys of full- time motherhood although I am also

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Creative Writing > Reflections Reflections: Food that makes me feel good: 2 of 31
Food is a wonderful prop to lift the soul; I often cheer myself up with the thought of steaming hot homemade baked lasagna after the end of a terrible day or perhaps a hearty beef and vegetable soup with fresh white crusty bread to dip for those poorly days. Allow me to indulge in my feel- good foods. You never know, maybe y... More..
Parenting & Pregnancy > Pregnancy Baby's "First Picture" from ultrasound: 1 of 15
Today was such a special day. I can't concentrate on anything else but that first picture of our baby and so I think it's only fitting that I should share such an extraordinary experience. Just a few hours ago my husband and I sat in the radiologist's waiting room; agitatedly clutching one another's hands and exchanging spor... More..
Creative Writing > Reflections Reflections: The best things in life: 3 of 44
They say the best things in life are free. I believe they' have it right. For those things that afford us the purest sense of joy, those things that enliven our soul and warm our hearts, stand tall in our memories and bring silent tears to our eyes are not bought with money. Ugly, sin-inducing money, that sickly substance th... More..
Relationships & Family > The Single Life How to stop being single: 3 of 39
Being single is no bad thing; indeed I often mourn the loss of my carefree singleton days. However to feel that you are hopelessly or terminally destined to be alone is another matter but, fear not, here is your indispensible guide to how to stop being single: 1) Make a conscious decision to look for a fulfilling relationshi... More..
Relationships & Family > Tips for Marital Happiness Should couples live together before getting married?: 22 of 275
These days, the vast majority of couples live together before marriage. And with good reason. At least from personal experience I know the old saying, 'you don't really know someone until you live with them,' is indeed true. Speaking from my perspective, I have lived with three men in the past (my husband excepted). All of t... More..
Creative Writing > Reflections Reflections: Pain from love: 5 of 57
Ignoring the dull headache that has progressively worsened I snatch the open bottle of cheap red wine from the kitchen counter and glug a generous measure into my glass. Slouching back to the living room I catch my reflection in the mirror. Turning to face it I almost recoil at the tragic sight of my lifeless eyes, the skin ... More..
Relationships & Family > Communication (Other) How you can recognize a good listener: 6 of 64
So many of us presume we are effective communicators because we have seemingly mastered the art of speaking. However equally if not more so important, yet sadly underestimated, is the ability to listen. We are often so intent upon expressing our opinions and listening to the sound of our own voice that we subconsciously view... More..
Entertainment > Movies (Other) Is it better to watch movies in theaters or DVDs at home?: 11 of 113
I'm definitely an advocate for watching DVD's in the comfort of your own home. The advantages of doing so completely overwhelm going to the movie theatre. I don't know about you, but when I settle down to watch a long-awaited movie, I like to snuggle down on my own cushy sofa, avec husband and cat on lap with perhaps a blank... More..
Parenting & Pregnancy > Feeding & Breastfeeding Deciding whether to breastfeed or not: 3 of 30
Decisions, decisionswell I thought I'd give breastfeeding a go. But, as fate would have it, that was not an option. I was receiving extensive dental work and was advised not to breastfeed. Just after giving birth to my baby boy this July I was using bleaching treatment prior to my new crowns being put in. I couldn't delay th... More..
Creative Writing > Memoirs Testimonies: Pregnancy: 5 of 44
I believed I had a good idea of what pregnancy was all about, after all, I had watched several of my friends become mum's before me. But, on reflection, I really didn't have much of a clue! Let me share with you what I have discovered thus far, at four months pregnant, especially for you newly expectant mum's-to-be. 1) I wis... More..