: About Me

Some people believed that BJ was able to change her own diapers as an infant. She was born on an island to a very young mother. She attended private school during her young life and went to many different Universities to earn her degrees.

She started her career in fashion as a young girl who was discovered in a clothing store where she worked during the summer. This fashion career was constant for fourteen years where she also did commercials, and some brief television work.

She went on to earn her first masters degree in business administration. After about thirteen years in a career as a financial advisor, she went on to earn another degree in psychology which permitted her to focus more on her long term goals.

She is an overachiever who would like to consider herself as self-sufficient, strong, motivated and God fearing. There is nothing in this world that she considers unattainable.

Her life experiences are derived from living in many different parts of the world, learning from different cultures, and examining her life as well as the life of others.

She is a Californian by the way of the Bahamas, Jamaica, Spain, France, Australia and the Philippines, who truly enjoys her quality of life.

My passion is ...

God and life......and the beach

I know too much about ...

Everything and nothing...

My parents always told me ...

If you don't have anything good to say...shut up!

My childhood ambition ...

To be a model and a finance guru.....

My favorite memory ...

Meeting my dad for the first time.

Why I write ...

It's therapy.....

What I am reading/watching/listening to ...

Any Mitch Albom book, Cashmere Mafia, John Legend

My first job ...

working at a beauty salon on Saturdays making $5 per day.

My best moment ...

The day I decided to make the change I wanted to see....

My inspiration ...

God...and my mother

Relationships & Family > Relationships & Family (Other) How do you know when it's real love

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"The heart has its reasons which reason does not understand" At some point in our lives, whether early in childhood or late in adulthood, we develop feelings for someone, which starts a relationship, and sometimes these relationships fail. Because a relationship fails, it does not mean that you are a bad person, it just means that you and this particular person are not compatible. It does not mean that you cannot find love with someone else. After watching movies like, Sleepless in Seattle, Premonition, and Bridges of Madison County, some of us, if we have never felt that "real thing," tha...

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