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About me - Stephanus Van Schalkwyk

My name is Stephanus, full names being Stephanus Hendrik van Schalkwyk. Stephanus is pronounced - Sti-fa-nis. No need to try the surname, some American friends have tried, with absolutely no success.

I am 39 years old, not married, yet... I am a Pastor by vocation

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Society & Lifestyle > Personal Morals & Values Living with the past
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Are we talking about, "living in the past", "living in spite of the past" or "living with the memories of the past casting a permanent shadow over the present."? When you are attempting to live with the past, all three of the above statements come into play in a greater or lesser degree.Such a statement shows that you have me... More..

Religion & Spirituality > Christian Doctrine & Issues Why God punishes evil when he has given free will
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Asking this question is be the same as asking; "Why, in a democratic system of government, do we expect those who did not vote for the ruling part to obey the laws they pass?". After all they didn't vote for them and isn't freedom of choice meant to be exactly that, that each one can do as he pleases? The answer to this quest... More..

Society & Lifestyle > Economic Values Money cannot buy happiness and love
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Considering the materialistic and economic conscious society we live in, this is a very relevant question. So, can money buy happiness and love? The answer happens to be yes and no. Yes money can buy happiness and no, money cannot buy love.The answer to the first part of the question is hidden in the meaning of happiness.Happ... More..

Society & Lifestyle > Lifestyles The youth of today ... a lost generation?
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Is the youth of today a lost generation? Not a difficult question to answer, when considering the facts.Today's youth are the most sexually promiscuous generation ever, engaging in sexual activities as young as 10-11 years of age, with teenage pregnancies the highest ever and on the rise. Youth participation in criminal activ... More..

Society & Lifestyle > Gender Issues Does society favor men?Smallicon
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No, society definitely does not favor men, if by asking the question you mean to say, above women. Men and woman have different roles and as long as we respect those differences, we are equal and should be treated as such.There are certain roles that a man was created for and does not fit a woman. That does not mean that she ... More..

Religion & Spirituality > Christian Doctrine & Issues Is drinking a sin for Christians?
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In writing this article I have assumed that the drinking of alcohol is under discussion and proceeded accordingly. To answer this question, we first have to explain what sin is. Sin is any action that has its root in your sinful, carnal nature and therefore violates the law of God.Romans 5:12 (King James Version) Wherefore, a... More..

Personal Finance > Spending & Saving (Other) The meaning of money
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Whatever your economic or social status, race, background or religious affiliation, you cannot escape the effect money has on your life. Money is important and impacts your life on many levels. What is money all about and what does it mean?ChoicePossessing money provides you with options. The more you have, the more options y... More..

Religion & Spirituality > Christian Doctrine & Issues God and temptation
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The Word is clear where temptation is concerned, God tempts no one.James 1:13 (King James Version) Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man:To say that God can tempt any man or woman is to accuse God of provoking His children (Ephesians 6:4). God ... More..

Religion & Spirituality > Self-Awareness & Realization This too shall pass: How every obstacle hindering your way to success is subject to change
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We all have dreams and many times wonder what would have happened and what our lives would be like if we had pursued them, but we make the responsible decisions and end up with a respectable life. We work hard and save for our retirement and hope that then we will finally be able to follow what is left of our dreams, if anyth... More..

Religion & Spirituality > Thoughts on God Is God an invention of man's mind or true being?Smallicon
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Asking this question is the same as wondering whether you might be an invention of your father or mother's mind or both. For you to exist, you had to be born out of the consummation of the relationship of your father and mother i.e. you are a created being. You resemble them physically, carry their DNA, have some of their cha... More..

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