: About Me

Taken on my 66th birthday. Live by the Indian Ocean, can hear the waves at night.
had five babies, lost three, still born, second died at 9 months, first born stabbed to death, aged 39 in a domestic dispute, I carry on living.
Married the first time around 28 years.
married second time around 18 years, very happy.
Spend my life quilting, reading, writing, computing, am an addict.
have one cat called Mr Chiko.
Live in Isle of wight and Nottingham England, 22 years.
New Zealand in Auckland 28 years.
Tasmania, where son died.
West Australia 16 years, love it here.
Looked after mother until she passed, she lived to be 100.
Now hubby cares for me, lol

My passion is ...

my hubby

I know too much about ...

everything

My parents always told me ...

be good

My childhood ambition ...

to be a vet

My favorite memory ...

wandering around London all on my own

Why I write ...

It helps me clear my brain

What I am reading/watching/listening to ...

Colleen Mcullogh Anthony and Cleopatra, the last of the Ceasar series,

My first job ...

Milking cowes and general farm work

My best moment ...

Getting married to my dh in 1989

My inspiration ...

to go to Heaven lol

Relationships & Family > Grief & Loss What to do when someone dies and there was no time for good-byes

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My second son Mark died in my arms at the age of nine months and I was able to say goodbye, but my eldest son Sean, was stabbed to death in a domestic dispute and I was not informed until four days later. He and his wife, son and twin daughters lived in Huonville Tasmania, it was not what you could call a happy marriage, nor should it have ever happened, she met him through me, so there are times when I feel oh so responsible , but I have to tell myself it was their lives and their decision. They married in Norwich in England, though Sean was brought up in New Zealand, he always had a year...

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