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I am a former insurance advisor from the Caribbean. Even though I worked in the financial sector and am currently pursuing an accounting qualification, my subject interest is primarily Social Psychology. However, being involved with the insurance industry

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Relationships & Family > Friendship Drama & Issues When and how to end a friendship: 1 of 113
When the bond of friendship breaks it lends credence to the assertion that all good things come to an end. The dissonance created by this is apparent even though you may be the one who decides when and how to cut the tie with your friend. If you're left-brained, you may reason that you should end the friendship at a certain j... More..
Arts & Humanities > Meaning of Life Contemplating the purpose of life: 2 of 148
Finding the purpose is life is a philosophical dilemma that has no definite or singular answer. This doesn't mean that few have tried however. Even the average guy may attempt to contemplate what the purpose of life is. Some may claim tour ultimate purpose is to be happy or to raise a family. I recall an erstwhile co-worker w... More..
Personal Finance > Retirement How to prepare for retirement: 1 of 42
Only a few people would argue against the notion that it is important to prepare for retirement. Indeed, a majority will understand the importance of saving for and planning towards retirement. However, knowing what to do, knowing how to do it and actually doing it are three different spheres.Everyone will prepare for retirem... More..
Relationships & Family > Love & Lust How to tell if it's love or just lust: 1 of 42
We all have the basic idea that love and lust are different, but it is sometimes difficult to apply this knowledge. Writers on the topic of love subscribe to the notion that different types of love exist. Helen Fisher suggests that the three types of love are lust, romantic love and long-term attachment. Whoa! Is that lust I ... More..
Relationships & Family > Relationships & Family (Other) Is your past controlling your life?: 2 of 82
Our history gives us an appreciation of both our present and our future. There are even relevant sayings, such as "The child is father of the man", to express the role of the past in determining our present. Presently, the past has a significant influence on my current perspectives and philosophies. However, influence is not ... More..
Relationships & Family > Communication Issues Relationships: The problems faced in communication: 1 of 37
Arguably all relationship problems are created or exacerbated by poor communication. In some cases, we simply don't know how to communicate properly. At other times, we are just blissfully ignorant or unwilling to communicate properly. Communication problems occur all too regularly. With familiarity, effective communication ... More..
Arts & Humanities > Writing & Rating at Helium Is the Helium rating system really fair: 1 of 33
Rating articles on Helium is subjective and contentious. In fact, several Helium members have complained about the system of rating at Helium. Even if Helium decided to employ staff or expert editors to rate content, it is likely that some writers would deem the rankings unfair as well. Some may point to articles that are con... More..
Personal Finance > Retirement Early retirement planning tips: 1 of 28
Early retirement (ceasing full-time employment before the typical retirement age of 60) is a mixed blessing. On one hand, you have more time and freedom to enjoy the rest of your life. On the other hand, you have a higher risk of outliving your savings because you may live for a longer period without full-time employment. U... More..
Sports & Recreation > Soccer Fundamentals What makes a good soccer goalie: 1 of 28
There is a maxim that states that 'good is the enemy of great'. However, having a good goalkeeper is surely a great advantage. All great goalkeepers were once good. They had a range of mental, physical and technical attributes that later allowed them to go beyond 'good' goalkeeping. As arguably the most demanding specialist ... More..
Relationships & Family > Friendship Advice Ten qualities every friend should have: 4 of 109
How we feel about life is closely linked to the quality of our friendships. A friend should be someone who shares a special bond or relationship with you. However, all and sundry would not (and should not) qualify for your friendship. Indeed, every friend should possess certain qualities in the context of the friendship. Alth... More..