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I've been living in Southwest Florida (Naples) for the past decade. Prior to '98 I was married and living on the Connecticut shoreline and employed in the insurance industry. After divorce, I thought the best medicine was distance and that is why I ended

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Celebrations & Holidays > Gift Advice Where to find the perfect holiday gift for your aging parents: 3 of 4
When trying to identify the perfect holiday gift for aging parents, consider their needs and interests. Think of something, in a price range you can afford, that will bring comfort, peace and joy. Often, beautifully-framed photographs of family are prized and treasured. How about a custom-made calendar with family pictures d... More..
Relationships & Family > Break-Ups & Exes How to get over a devastating break-up: 23 of 28
I believe the break-up of a lengthy marriage is similar to experiencing a death of a family member. You never really do get over it. When there isn't closure, one has a sense of "unfinished business" that haunts you throughout life. The hurtful feelings can be pushed aside, but they carry on a life of their own deep in one's... More..
Parenting & Pregnancy > Teen Challenges Teaching teens table manners: 12 of 14
Each of us is a product of our upbringing. Our early interactions with family contribute to who we are and how we behave. Exposure to peers and participation in social gatherings further shapes our views about what is appropriate and expected behavior. It is the parent's responsibility to set an example of what is right and ... More..
Celebrations & Holidays > Thanksgiving Ideas for Thanksgiving table decorations: 7 of 8
Holiday table decorations should be inspired by nature. The day before Thanksgiving, set off for a walk in the forest equipped with one or two brown paper grocery bags. Along the the walk, visualize how you'd want to create a memorable decorative arrangement for the dinner table. Search for pine cones of different sizes, int... More..
Relationships & Family > Dating Dilemmas Getting over a crush: 22 of 25
First of all, let's define "crush". The dictionary says it's the object of infatuation. To me it means one is lusting over an individual. And, lust is desire. It means you are physically attracted to an individual. It is possible to get over a crush if you take your thoughts beyond your attraction for the individual and look... More..
Creative Writing > Memoirs Testimonies: Dysfunctional mother and daughter relationships: 77 of 85
My mother, 78, is nearing the end of her life and I'm in my early fifties. My mother has not been very nice to me over the years. As a child I was busy looking after my younger siblings because mother was too busy doing other things (including, at times, cheating on my father). We didn't get along . . . she was always degrad... More..
Relationships & Family > Successful Dating Tips for going on a date with an older woman: 4 of 4
An older woman is often wiser than a younger man. If you do have interest in dating an older woman, act yourself . . . don't try to be someone you aren't. I don't think there is anything wrong with interest in a woman that is ten years more or less than your age. What counts is that there is mutual chemistry, personality and... More..
Creative Writing > Poetry Poetry: One day I left: 2 of 2
He was always away from home too long, physically and mentally I reached out to him, but was pushed aside How many times had I heard the comment: "People have been at me all day long, leave me alone" I'd make him dinner and often it wasn't good enough Business calls intruded upon our time And one day as he was looking throug... More..
Sciences > Sciences (Other) Christmas 2007: Science and discovery gift ideas for adults: 2 of 2
People in their forties and fifties begin to take stock of their lives often resulting in mid-life course changes. If you're looking for a gift for a baby boomer who has an interest in science, consider the following books: * The Mature Mind by Gene Cohen, M.D., PH. D. - Start dancing and pick challenging leisure activities.... More..