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Relationships & Family > First Dates Tips on how to start a conversation on a first date: 3 of 15

We've all been there. Here are quick tips for conversation starters on a first date: 1) Listen actively first. Then paraphrase what your date has said in the form of a question. Example: He says, "I had an outrageous day at work-the software had a glitch in it, the staff was complaining and I couldn't hear myself think." You say: "Sounds like you feel under-appreciated." He might say: "Yeah! That's exactly how I felt." It is great to be validated, so immediately he thinks you "get him." 2) Talk less and listen more. Now is not the time to tell your date about your horrible ex-girlfri...
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