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Wow, what can I say about me? There is much I still have to learn about life in general although I have learned much throughout my life already. I am a 44-year-old single (again) mother of 5 beautiful children. I have endured breakup of more than one relationship,

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Relationships & Family > Children & Divorce In divorce, should the father have equal custody rights to his children?: 1 of 110
It is said that many states favor the mother in child custody cases. The mindset has always been that mothers have a greater bond and are more nurturing which somehow is interpreted that they would be better caregivers, where as fathers are more disciplinarians and both are now expected to be providers. Is this mindset a fai... More..
Politics, News & Issues > Justice System Should parents be held responsible for their minor children's criminal behavior?: 1 of 32
In the debate of whether or not parents should be held responsible for their children's criminal behavior many weigh in their opinions based on their own perspective or experiences but what are the facts? Many think parents should have more control over the behavior of the children. How can one person control the actions of ... More..
Society & Lifestyle > Economic Values Minimum wage: Is it fair?: 2 of 54
The idea of minimum wage being fair or not depends on ones perspective. If you are one of the 3% of all salary or hourly workers age 16 and older in the U.S. earning wages at minimum wage or below it probably does not seem like a fair wage. If you are one of the many people who cannot find a job because of the downfall of th... More..
Relationships & Family > Divorce & Legal Issues Should it be compulsory for couples to sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage?: 1 of 27
The Failure of Marriage: Can Prenuptial Agreements Save a Marriage? Many factors play a role in the ruin of a marriage including infidelity, lies, boredom, lack of common goals, lack of communication, mental illnesses and well, the list can go on for eternity however, the biggest factor of all is lack of protection. There ar... More..
Society & Lifestyle > Personal Morals & Values Are people inherently good?: 4 of 83
The ability to be good or bad resides in each of us. While some people behave more bad than good we all are capable of being good or bad. For the question, Are people inherently good, we must first understand the definition of inherent. Inherent is defined by Dictionary.com as existing in someone or something as a permanent ... More..
Politics, News & Issues > People in the News Should Senator Larry Craig (R-ID) have resigned?: 1 of 20
Senator Craig may or may not be a hypocritical bisexual who solicits sex behind his wife's back in public restrooms but the evidence against Senator Craig was lame at best. If he had pleaded innocent and stood his ground he would have won the legal battle but more than likely would have lost his political career. The Senator... More..
Arts & Humanities > Poets & Poetry Does the best poetry come from the heart or from the mind?: 6 of 115
These debates are always black or white. Where is the vote for both? I know for fact that my poetry comes from the heart but it is the mind that puts it into words. First it gets written from the heart, with form in mind, and then it gets edited with only form in mind retaining the feelings that came from the heart. Therefor... More..
Parenting & Pregnancy > Problems Parents Face How to avoid relying too much on your kids: 1 of 15
When adults decide to bring children into their lives they decide (or should) to put the children first. Many would say, "Yeah, in a perfect world." This world is far from perfect but there are things parents can do to make it better for their children. This does not necessarily mean they have to create a child centered life... More..
Relationships & Family > Dating Psychology Do nice guys really finish last?: 6 of 81
There is an old saying used mostly by men who feel rejected, "Nice guys finish last." The reality of the situation is that the "nice guy" who is feeling rejected lacked in other areas that are equally important as being nice. Seriously, if a nice guy was "all that" why would he be rejected? "Nice guys" and "Bad boys are term... More..
Computers & Technology > Car Electronics Is a lot of bass in a car stereo system good or bad?: 1 of 10
The car is no place for loud music! Period! End of story! The automobile is not a concert hall or a place to hold a party. Yes, I may be considered as an old fuddy-duddy but the automobile is a tool that if not taken seriously and operated properly can take the lives of others and of its occupants. When one is behind the whe... More..