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I'm a freelance writer working on my first fiction novel. I'm also an experienced immigration attorney with my own law practice (www.ayersimmigration.com). My other passions include marine biology, travel, photography, music, books, and movies. I have a B.A.

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Creative Writing > Memoirs Testimonies: Quitting your job: When enough is enough: 1 of 53
Quitting your job can be both exhilarating and frightening. But, let's face it, not all of us can afford to quit - right? Well, that's what we tell ourselves: I need the job experience; I need the money; I don't have a Plan B; I'm the sole bread winner in the family...and so on. Do any of these statements sound familiar? Alth... More..
Relationships & Family > Married Life Common marriage myths: 2 of 54
Common marriage myths fall into one of two categories: 1) myths that are meant to encourage marriage, and 2) myths that are meant to prevent marriage. Whether or not you've taken the vows of marriage, chances are that you've heard some of these myths along the way. Friends, especially those who are or have been married, and e... More..
Arts & Humanities > Writing Tips Writing problems to avoid: Five things that kill good writing: 2 of 42
Good writing is like chocolate. When the writing is made well and sustains its flavor to the end, the reader is left feeling satisfied and delighted. But when the writing has any of the following five problems, it just makes the reader want to spit it in the trash. To keep your reader happy, avoid these five things that kill ... More..
Parenting & Pregnancy > Pregnancy What you wish you knew before you were pregnant: 1 of 21
Pregnancy is one of the rare life experiences that you must have for yourself to truly understand. I could explain to you just how I feel and what I know, now in the second trimester of my first pregnancy, but it will be most helpful (for those of you not yet pregnant) for me to tell you the top ten things that I wish I'd kno... More..
Relationships & Family > Marital Conflicts How to leave if you're afraid of your spouse: 2 of 32
Domestic violence is often a silent killer. The abused spouse suffers not only the physical and emotional trauma of the abuse, but the misunderstanding of many who say, "Why don't you just leave?" Those of us who have not been in an abusive relationship have probably thought or said exactly that when we hear of someone stayin... More..
Creative Writing > Poetry Poetry: Life: 87 of 1201
Bring me in from the storm,Weathered and worn.Bring me in where you liveAnd sleep.We have stories to tellAnd places to see.We have time hereTo laugh and to weep.From the day into nightInto day into night,From our childhood to old age,We'll share.They will say we're too young,And then we're too old.They will say, even so,We're... More..
Celebrations & Holidays > Engagements & Proposals Best questions to ask the groom before marriage: 6 of 45
Before you say "I do" to the question of wedded bliss, there are a few questions that your groom needs to answer. The "wrong" answer to one of these questions can sometimes be a deal breaker. Other times, an answer that you didn't expect may be the catalyst for your growth as a couple. Relationships and marriage will either t... More..
Relationships & Family > Tips for Marital Happiness From dating to marriage: Rules for success: 9 of 66
I'm married to my college sweetheart. We dated for five years, were engaged for a year and a half, and just celebrated our sixth wedding anniversary. Here are a few rules for success based on my personal experience with the transition from dating to marriage:1. Don't rush it. Timing means a lot when it comes to relationships.... More..
Arts & Humanities > Writing Tips How to create a motivational writing area: 7 of 43
Writing requires self discipline and motivation. One key to developing and sustaining an internal drive to write each day is to create a writing area that inspires you. We all know how difficult it can be to actually sit down and put pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard). The greatest benefit of a writing area is its ability ... More..
Creative Writing > Memoirs Memoirs: What my dog means to me: 85 of 429
My dog can talk. No, I'm not crazy. I understand that he doesn't speak words the way that you and I do, but he communicates to me in his own language. He tilts his head to say, "What is that?" He puts his ears back and whines near the door to say, "I need to go out." He barks at his food bowl when a piece of food gets away or... More..