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I have been a paralegal for the over eight years. Working in the legal field to me is very rewarding. I learn something new every day and I love the research and writing.

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Creative Writing > Memoirs Testimonies: Overcoming a drinking problem: 4 of 78
Overcoming a drinking problem is an ongoing battle one that will have to be dealt with for the rest of my life. Growing up I knew that my family history consisted of alcoholism. I even did research on alcoholism and genetic effects yet, still I ended up having to overcome my own drinking problem. I do not blame anyone for my ... More..
Relationships & Family > Blended Families Willingness to become a step parent: 1 of 18
Becoming a step parent is not always an easy choice but when you fall in love with someone and they have a child you have to be willing to be a step parent or you need to walk away.If you would have asked me four years ago, "would you ever date a guy who has a child?" My answer would have been no. I was in my mid 20's and lov... More..
Celebrations & Holidays > Wedding Planning Tips to avoid wedding stress: 3 of 29
When planning a wedding you are going to have stress. There is no way to avoid it 100%. Being a bride-to-be here are the tips that I have lived by for the past 5 months and with 4 months to go I will continue to live by.1. START EARLY! You are engaged! Now the stress, I mean fun begins. Unless you have your wedding location, ... More..
Relationships & Family > Relatives Is it ever o.k. to date your ex-brother-in-law?: 1 of 6
Personally, I do not think it is ever okay to date your ex-brother-in-law. When my sister and her husband (my brother-in-law) got divorced, he actually began pursuing me. He asked me out several times and each time I declined. My ex-brother-in-law is a great guy; and I was very upset that my sister and he were getting divorce... More..
Personal Finance > Managing Debt Things to watch out for in debt management: 3 of 16
Management of ones debt can be a chore, especially when your debt is out of control. Here are some tips for keeping your debit under control as well as tips on what to do if you let your debt consume you.Set up a budget:In today's computer savvy world setting up a budget does not have to be that hard of a task. Excel can do t... More..
Pets & Animals > Cat Psychology Why cats purr and what they are saying when they meow: 9 of 43
There are several reasons why cats purr, from being very happy or even scared. Cats are born knowing how to purr and within days they begin purring while nursing. Some people said that this is a way for the mom cat and the kittens to communicate during feeding sessions.Often people will notice cats' purring while petting them... More..
Relationships & Family > Friendship Advice Is it better to have a large or small group of friends?: 7 of 33
Surrounding yourself with a large group of friends can lead a very rewarding life. Every friend will bring something different to your life. If you have that one friend you have known the longest, this is the person you call for just about anything and everything. On the other hand, if there is an issue with your significant ... More..
Jobs & Careers > Getting Ahead Tips for building self-confidence in your job: 4 of 15
Changing jobs can be scary, nerve racking, and can be hard on your self-confidence, a lot of it depends on the reason you left your prior position or what your new position has in store for you. Even if you are a very confident person, most people will still have to rebuild their confidence when starting a new position.When I... More..
Relationships & Family > Friendship Advice Relocating to be with friends: Is it worth it?: 2 of 6
Not many people want to move to a new town or city and feel completely alone. If you have friends that have already taken chance and moved out to the bigger city or the small town why not relocate to be with them? Friends to most people are extended family members, but sometimes can be better then family. They are the people ... More..
Law & Legal Information > Lawyers & Legal Advice Where to get professional advice for drafting a will: 2 of 6
With being an Estate Planning paralegal for the past 7 years of course I am going to say that the best place to get advice for drafting a Last Will and Testament is an Attorney. Not just any attorney, you want one that has years of experience in Estate Planning, Wills and Trusts or Probate. A will is like a fingerprint no two... More..