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We are creating a life where we work less and enjoy life, love, family, and art more. I'm going to train to become a life coach as a part time career and continue my astrological studies.

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Entertainment > Celebrity Commentary The sexiest man alive...: 2 of 8
I'm going to have to go somewhat old school on this question. The sexiest man alive for me (aside from my husband) is still Brad Pitt. Physically, he's just simply quite naturally beautiful. He takes care of himself and it shows. Or he doesn't, and it doesn't matter. Either way, the face, the body, the hair-all great. More th... More..
Home & Garden > Buying & Selling Homes How to decide if you should rent or buy a home: 2 of 5
Whether to rent or buy a home is a personal decision that can only be made after taking into account a number of factors.Many people will tell you that buying a home is far more fiscally sound than renting. In a vacuum, this is true. While renting you are "throwing money away" versus buying, in which you "end up with somethin... More..
Creative Writing > Reflections Reflections: Death of a loved one: 55 of 136
When I was six, my mother's Uncle John died. I remember being at the wake. I remember seeing the body, somewhat from afar. I remember being completely freaked out by it. Later, I was in the bathroom at the funeral home, alone in the stall, and I was sure he was watching me. He might even come get me. I thought about that a lo... More..
Parenting & Pregnancy > Parenting Styles (Other) How important is extended family support to parenting?: 8 of 18
Since I am a mom of two with very little extended family support, my qualified opinion is that a little more support, while not absolutely necessary, sure would be nice to have. Unless you have a lot of extra money for childcare, and can easily find caregivers you trust, without family to help out, parents can start to feel e... More..
Parenting & Pregnancy > Working Parents Going back to work after having a baby: 17 of 28
The biggest issues I faced when I returned to work after the birth of my son were feeling like I was missing out on too many important things with him and making sure that our nursing relationship continued to thrive. My son was 4 months old when I went back to work. My husband was already a stay-at-home dad to my stepson, so... More..
Parenting & Pregnancy > Parenting Styles (Other) The unique joys and challenges of stay-at-home dads: 11 of 15
Stay-at-home dads are a somewhat new phenomena that definitely present unique joys and challenges for the family involved. The joys include the child(ren) and father having an opportunity to bond in a way that they might not have if the father were out of the house more often or very tired from working all of the time. My hus... More..
Style & Beauty > Tattoos & Piercings What's the ideal age at which to pierce your child's ears?: 6 of 7
I don't believe there is one ideal age for children to get their ears pierced. As a parent, you need to examine your answers to some important questions to decide if now is the right time for you and your child. I have two boys, ages 9 and 2, and believe it or not, this question has come up already. The first question for me ... More..
Religion & Spirituality > Astrology & Prophecy Different types of Tarot cards: 7 of 8
I don't really believe in collecting things. However, if there were one thing I do tend to collect, it would be Tarot cards. I don't have as many as a lot of people I'm sure, but I have to say that I love them. For some reason, I have never owned a traditional set of Tarot cards. Perhaps I will someday.I started with the Hain... More..
Parenting & Pregnancy > Teen Challenges Exploring teenagers' desires for serious relationships: 8 of 9
I imagine that teenagers desire serious relationships for the same reasons as the rest of us. I am no longer a teenager, but I do remember that time in my life, and I had at least two serious relationships that taught me many things. Teenagers want to experience love, as we all do. They want to experience acceptance, as we al... More..
Parenting & Pregnancy > Toddlers Talking with your toddler: Effective communication strategies: 23 of 23
Good communication can ease many of the frustrations of dealing with a toddler. These are just a few tips about communicating with toddlers from my experience with my own son. I am not an expert. For the expert or very experienced parent, I'm sure this list will be less than groundbreaking. It is not meant to be exhaustive in... More..