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My work as a Personal Life Coach and Writer has helped blend a introverted extroverted personality. Hidden as a writer and out there working with a client who needs and wants my help to move forward. Early on my love of the poets and their history were fascinating

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Creative Writing > Memoirs Testimonies: Are patients with suicidal tendancies given enough help: 1 of 8

In dealing with mental illness on a day to day basis I see those who ask for help and those who need help desperately to learn how. My concerns with this subject are those who are suicidal do not always tell anyone or even elude to the fact that they are in a place of feeling hopeless or worse see their lives not worth living... More..
Relationships & Family > Divorce & Legal Issues What you should know before getting a divorce: 3 of 21
A divorce is a serious legal matter. Most people enter into a divorce like they did their marriage. With such passion and promise. Divorce creates another type of passion and the emotional toll I promise will divert your thinking about the future. If you have children proceed with much care as their futures are also at risk. ... More..
Relationships & Family > Crisis Support (Other) How common and how damaging is the crime of stalking: 3 of 10

Stalking is a crime and can cause their victims irreparable damage. Some victims need counseling for many years. Their sense of security is sadly changed forever as well as the beginning of major trust issues. Stalking can become "baggage" that is so often carried into other relationships. This lack of security can cause a ho... More..
Relationships & Family > Marital Conflicts Why marriage is so hard: 21 of 66

Is marriage hard? I find marriage for me is easy. I have been with my husband for eleven years. In my day, living together was a sure fire way to doom a relationship but for me it was buying time. After ten years of research with my present husband we are now only married one year. I feared marriage would change the relations... More..
Health & Fitness > Emotional Health & Wellbeing The health benefits of breathing deeply: 4 of 11
Physicians in the United States now have the answer to saving lives and money on their answering service bills. They now have less calls in the night allowing for more time for their recreational health needs for a stress free long life. The Doctors claim they are successful in treating their patients with this new drug "Oxyg... More..
Health & Fitness > Sexually Transmitted Diseases Hepatitis C: Symptoms and treatment: 5 of 11
Hepatitis C first and foremost is not something you would die from. If you have Hepatitis C it is a probability that you will die with the virus. There are so many misconceptions about Hepatitis C and how it is contracted and treated. Hepatitis C is the most common blood-borne infection in the United States. Unfortunately, th... More..
Relationships & Family > Cheating Spouses & Affairs Adultery: Affairs are a "forgivable sin": 45 of 83

I have been on both sides of this subject and can tell you it matters not if you were the cheater or the one who was cheated on this is a major break down of trust within a relationship. Many couples can not work on this issue at all. It is a definite deal breaker in relationships that have made a boundary around this issue p... More..
Relationships & Family > Married Life Should husbands or wives control the family budget?: 26 of 45

I am the financial student in the family. I happen to be the wife. I feel it is best in a relationship to allow each person their personal talents in running a household. So, who is best at creating the budget should do it. In our household I am the main budget holder and better at having creative ways to move money around to... More..
Business > Management Ethics Effects of poor management: 11 of 18

It has been my experience that poor management can have dramatic effect on your team. Management for me was an acquired education. Applications of education prepare for the administration of a position however dealing with people is different with each position. Many managers when intervewing discount the effect of the new te... More..
Jobs & Careers > Getting Ahead Do disabled workers need government help to get employed?: 9 of 14
Last spring I had the opportunity to work with the disabled. These people were retraining for employment with a new goverment program called "Ticket to Work". The description of a Vocational Coordinator was to help the disabled find work. More importantly help them retain employment with the hopes of a supporting themselves f... More..