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About me - Ruo Hoo Tan

Hi, I am a Full time mother with four young children. I enjoy reading, and writing. English is not my native language though, I try my best to be a part of community. Currently, I am working on sociology research focusing on Women and their roles especially

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Creative Writing > Memoirs Memoirs: Women trying to measure up in a man's world
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Though women's overall legal and social status having significantly improved, the real equality is far from realization. Statistic shows that less than 3 per cent of women are in high level executive management positions. Women are still dominantly in production and clerical work, which are vulnerable to economic fluctuations... More..

Parenting & Pregnancy > Feeding & Breastfeeding How to be a 'breastfeeding militant'
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I don't need to reemphasize the importance of breastfeeding. (There is a lot of information available). What I wanted to share with you is we need to do all things with balance.Paul, our first baby certainly benefited from being a first child, he had all the attentions to his own, at the same time he also suffered our uninten... More..

Business > Web Advertising Why Google deletes adsense accounts and how to avoid losing yours
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How many times do you really read "terms and conditions" when you conduct online transaction, or sign up an online programmer or download and install software? I don't know about you, but for me, a not-so-technical and not-so-knowledgeable internet user, find the prints of "terms and conditions" and "legal and policy" are oft... More..

Religion & Spirituality > Christianity (Other) Biblical remedies for anxiety
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What are you worrying for? Are you worried for you job? That is why you are so careful to speak, to act, to write, "if I have not been so careful, I might have been laid off by now."Are you worried whether you will have enough money to...Are you worried your children? Are they safe, with good company? If you are not worrying ... More..

Society & Lifestyle > Immigration Issues Speaking with an accent: What's easy and what's hard?
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I always feel a bit uneasy when some one asked me "Where are you coming from?". For obviously reason, if they think I am local, they won't have to ask this kind of question.After many years wondering outside my home country, I have learnt to decode the really meaning behind this harmless looking question.Sometimes, it could b... More..

Relationships & Family > Family Life Househusbands: Reflections on full time fathering
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I have privilege to meet up quite a few Full Time Fathers recently. There are even a "secret business men association" for "stay at home dads". A good name isn't it. In our modern society, it is not even easy to be a full time mother; I guess it requires more courage to be a full time father.Different from most of Full Time M... More..

Sports & Recreation > Summer Olympics Best opening ceremonies of the summer Olympics
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August 08, 2008 evening, I watched Beijing Olympic Opening Ceremony 2008, a simply stunning, glorious, nearly perfect showcase that declares to the whole world "A new era of Chinese history has started."After months and years preparation, Director ZhangYimou didn't let Chinese and the world world down. It was indeed a wonderf... More..

Society & Lifestyle > Political Values How globalism will change our lives
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What is home? Oxford dictionary defines "Home" is the place one lives, especially with one's family. In the olden days, this is question is out of question, for people were born at one place, and grew up and started their own family at the same place; finally, died at the same place, subsequently, their children started their... More..

Relationships & Family > Grief & Loss Death of a life
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My husband's aunt Shirley passed away barely two weeks ago. She was found of lung cancer, and within three month, she was gone.Though I do not know her well, as she was overseas most of time, I will remember her for the rest of my life from one of brief encounters with her.That was almost ten years ago. I just got married and... More..

Religion & Spirituality > Self-Awareness & Realization The futility of seeking absolute equality and fairness explained
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My children often complain "It is not fair". They are comparing all kinds of things, privileges to go out with parents, size of birthday cakes, stories mum read, pencils received in different colours, and (always, his colours is nice than mine).I am always trying to be a fair mother, but soon I find there is no such absolute ... More..

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