About me....
I'm on my last marriage to a wonderful man, who doesn't always understand me, but tolerates and loves me.
We have a conglomeration of yours, mine and ours of children ranging in ages of 25 to 7 and not to forget our beloved dog, Lucky.
Our youngest
+ more bio informationBefore we embark on this question, please take a moment and consider the following. What do you think of when you hear these words: Drug Dealer, Alcoholic, Home Wrecker, Jiggalow, Party Animal, Whore, Corruption, Addict, Adulteress or Player. What kind of a mental picture does that create for you? Thinking for a pretty low, ...
We are products of our environment. Is this a statement or an excuse? Our environment has many influences in our life. Our childhood, neighborhood and how we are raised all factor into the equation of who we are. What we need to realize is, how we deal with our environment is a major factor to who we are too. Say I came from...
I have a large family so desserts being void in our house would be suicidal. I have a family fun cake that everyone enjoys. It's quick, simple and different than your other treats. First Preheat oven to 375 degrees Now get your gear: 2 Boxes of your standard box of Devils Food cake mix 4 Eggs 2-1/3 cups water 1/2 cup oil Fro...
When I look at our world and the people in it, why do we separate the disabled from the enabled? Is it that we think they are incapable of handling the responsibilities of a job or stresses of everyday life? Do we down play their challenges to make our conscience minds more at ease? Are we sympathetic, but not empathetic? I ...
As a child I went camping every weekend and 80% of my summer. I've been to different state parks, rivers and inlets. One of the most memorable experience I had is we decided to rough it one weekend. And I mean rough it. We packed our boat and went a good hour up the Missouri river, found a good inlet and unpacked the boat. W...
God's presence in me, is something that can not be defined by going to worship every Sunday. It isn't defined in how many church circles I attend. And it certainly isn't defined by how much I contribute to the church fund every year. Are those the misconceptions on what true Christianity is all about? Christianity is a way o...
Overcoming a fight with a spouse can be more unpleasant the fight itself. Why? Pride. Too many times we just want to be right. No questions asked. Just shut up and listen. Sound familiar? I know I have days like that. BUT, I have to take a step back and remind myself that this is the person I love. This is my best friend, lo...
As I see this Article title, I am brought back to a very serious conversation I was having with my mother. I was having martial issues and I just didn't get it. Why are men and women so different? We have so many imperfections, more times than not, they just really irritate us or our spouses. Why do we have these imperfectio...
When dealing with difficult parents there are 3 things to remember. Keep yourself in check, understanding why they are controlling and when is it appropriate to say something. I have to continuously remind myself that I allow their actions or words to effect me. And I sincerely mean that, I am in control of how I react. When...
So you know. You found out that your teen is sexually active. After the heartbreak and anger, you need to take a step back and figure out your game plan. Yes, you need a game plan. You know, for a fact, no question about it, that they have engaged in the all worldly realm of sexual activities. They are no longer your baby. S...
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