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Creative Writing > Reflections Reflections: Friendship: 14 of 82
I have made a lot of 'friends' in my life. Most have gone,but the best remain.Most come and go;they are friends for a short while. Most friendships have a sell-by-date. This may sound harsh, but it is true. There are few people who can be friends for life. We all change with time, and it is rare to find someone who stats with... More..
Creative Writing > Reflections Reflections: Emotional abuse: 7 of 37
You protest that you didn't abuse me, as you never put a bruise on me. You think you are so much better than the men who use their fists. But you are not.You never listened to me. When you questioned me you would yell over the top of me as I tried to respond.All my interests were seen as second-rate. You did everything you co... More..
Relationships & Family > First Dates First-date safety tips for women: 11 of 49
Ten tips for the first date Meet somewhere familiar to you, preferably where you are well known. Not only will you feel more comfortable, but a guy is less likely to cause you a problem if he knows you have back-up. Be yourself. If your date end up as a partner he will eventually uncover any lies, and this could mean the end ... More..
Health & Fitness > Emotional Health & Wellbeing Tips on dealing with a stressful life: 3 of 12
Some ways to reduce stress. They really work!1. Hit something.Letting out some of that pent-up frustration with a little controlled physical violence can help! Just be careful what you hit. Generally speaking other people and dogs are out, and glass windows and brick walls hurt. Try thumping the pillow or better still invest ... More..
Creative Writing > Poetry Poetry: Mental abuse: 4 of 15
Behind Closed DoorsAnother day with this new dawn,He awakes with the same old groan and yawn.The promises made to change his waysBut she knows he will always be the sameHe grunts as she gets out of bed,His attention on the pain in his head.She throws away the leftover wine,As she muses on the endless march of time.He is up by... More..
Creative Writing > Poetry Poetry: Love unrequited: 118 of 399
XYou murdered my museMy head full of youNo room for poetryAlthough you're untrue.Creativity strangled You burgled my mindWith a counterfeit kissYou rendered me blind.To escape from your prisonIs now what I needIf you've any compassionPlease set me free More..
Relationships & Family > Dating Commentary What qualifies a man as dating potential?: 13 of 40
We all have different ideas of what we are looking for, but this is what would make a man a potential date for me.HumourIt is true; we girls are very attracted to a man who can make us laugh. This isn't about being a great comedian. I would date a man who amused me. Its about having a general sense of humour that I can relate... More..
Relationships & Family > New & Old Friends Assessing the value of 'friends' on Facebook: 2 of 6
Most facebook 'friends' are people with whom you will have no actual contact whatsoever. They are not going to pop around to your house for a cup of tea, join you in the pub for a few drinks, or attend your wedding. You will almost certainly never meet.Some facebook friends are people that you also know in real life, and have... More..
Creative Writing > Humor Humor: Breaking up: 2 of 6
Dear John,Thank you so much for your letter telling me how much you still love me, and for your offer of a meal. It is flattering to hear you still fancy' me. But I have to say no.As I know your enormous ego will find this difficult to understand, here are my reasons why. If nothing else, I can hope you will take a hint or to... More..
Relationships & Family > Dating Psychology Ladies, beware: Men to avoid ... forever: 7 of 16
Nine men to avoid dating at all costs.1.The toy boyA lot of women think this would be great fun and assume the sex would be fantastic. They forget that experience really does matter and that the fumbling of an inept lover is not actually that exciting. Still sex is not everything, so what about the rest of the relationship?Sh... More..