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Parenting & Pregnancy > Problems Parents Face Single parents: How to get through the first year

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Having faced this dilemma twice now, two kids per husband (you do the math), I'm not one to preach on what to do, but rather what NOT to do. Do not suppress or deny your emotions. Just find the appropriate outlet for them and this IS NOT your children. Your children have a right to a relationship with both their mother and father untarnished by your emotional luggage. Notwithstanding this, you need to fully explore and deeply express how you are feeling about the circumstances surrounding your separation/divorce. Blame is irrelevant. As Nikolai Gogol said "It is no use to blame the looking...

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