Sex Appeal.. defined as..
1. The ability to excite people sexually.
2. Immediate appeal or obvious potential to interest, attract or excite others, as by appearance, style, or charm.

Sex Apppeal is your Physical appearance. First impressions often count and looking good creates a good first impression. Although being good looking is part of this, looking good also covers looking confident. You wont win any hearts with your shoulders slumped and twiddling some sweaty thumbs.

Sex Appeal is Confidence. Confidence can be seen right across the room and both men and women love it. It's easy to spot and it also says "You're good enough for me to risk making a fool of myself talking to you". People appreciate you making the first move, and let's face it; If it doesn't work out it wont be the end of the world.

Sex Appeal is Interest. Saying what you want to and what is on your mind will ensure people see the real you as well as making you feel more comfortable, resulting in an easier flowing conversation. Talk about what you like and what you dont (Though dont waste time moaning about what you dont like) but always be interesting. Asking a person questions about themselves will get them talking, which is handy because people love talking about themselves. Just dont go overboard and turn it into an investigation. Before long you will be oozing appeal.

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