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How to really lose a guy-on the first date 20 Articles

  • 1 of 20

    by Siobhan Fletcher Witt

    Loosing a guy on the first date is really a simple thing to do. It doesn't require any planning or special procedures. Just be creative and act as if everything is going well. Of course, it is not because you want to ge...read more

  • 2 of 20

    by Pat Lunsford

    Okay, so he's not even close to what you you're attracted to. Surely you can tolerate a couple hours then tactfully tell him it just didn't work for you. Okay, so he's a little on the obnoxious side. Would it kill you to h...read more

  • 3 of 20

    by Tiffany Kjell

    So your friend set you up on a blind date and it isn't going quite as you had hoped. You need to ditch the guy, but don't want to make him feel awful about himself. How do you do that? Simple. Make him feel awful about you...read more

  • 4 of 20

    by Denise Cruz

    Maybe its your first blind date, or you just took one look at the guy and sad 'this isnt going to happen'. If your like me you prefer to be dumped than to dump. So here are a few tips that will help you to lose him for sur...read more

  • by Shontaine Ayers

    How to Really lose a guy on the first date is simple, Carry ALL your baggage from previous relationships with you that night. I gaurantee if you want to get rid of that date tell him about all your exes. Tell him every lit...read more

  • 6 of 20

    by Laura Leigh Fields

    The first date is an important one. It is the deciding factor in whether or not you will get a second date. It also sets the mood for future dates and possibilities. If you really want to lose a guy on a first date, chance...read more

  • 7 of 20

    by Nando Rodriguez

    After a few disappointing episodes with men, I decide to hop right back on the saddle of life. Yes people, I decide to go out on another date. And I did it with style and class. I went the Demi Moore route and picked a you...read more

  • 8 of 20

    by Polikos Tsanagris

    It's the first date and everything is going badly, yet he still seems interested in you. You've tried all the tricks in the book to cut the date short but he doesn't get the hint. You've even resorted to un-lady like behav...read more

  • 9 of 20

    by K8

    Your date started out with the ussuall high hopes of happily-ever-after and took a wrong turn somewhere along the road. So you really want to lose this guy! Here is a humorous list of things you can do that will ensure he ...read more

  • 10 of 20

    by Gina Leclair

    How to really lose a guy-on the first date 1.) Don't listen to your friends when they try to help you get dressed They are probably right. Dress innapropritately. 2.) Talk excessively about you...read more

  • 11 of 20

    by Janesse

    If you want to lose a guy on the very first date there are simple things you can do. Some may be humorous while others just downright offensive. So i'll ask in advance that no one see's the bad in this but just a light sen...read more

  • 12 of 20

    by Jake Mcpherson

    This is actually probably alot harder for some then you might imagine. Guys can be quite desperate, even if most are very picky. One it comes to "turning him off" or trying to get rid of him and may take more than sub...read more

  • 13 of 20

    by Helen Cunningham

    Ok, you realise that when you arranged to meet up with this guy you were quite intoxicated and the 'beer goggles' were on, so now that you are completely sober there is no spark whatsoever and he doesn't remotely interest ...read more

  • 14 of 20

    by Mark Miyashiro

    It all started out she was the blond next door at work. I always had a weakness for blonds, this one was a beauty. She was about 5'7" athletic, full bosom, nice legs. She was into water sports and biking, she got me to go...read more

  • 15 of 20

    by Saydios

    Ok there are some simple ways to ditch a guy on your first date: 1. First find out about their hobbies and things they do for fun, and then go on to tell them all the problems you have with the things they like. 2. T...read more

  • 16 of 20

    by Regina Coney

    10 ways to lose a guy on the first date: 1. Don't seem to desperate guys like a little chase 2. Never talk about your ex unless your asked about it. Most guys don't wanna hear it. 3. Don't tell him how long it took yo...read more

  • 17 of 20

    by SunNita

    Are you "trying" to lose this guy? Can you already tell that he's just not the one? Maybe he has stalker tendencies, or maybe he's an arrogant jerk. Sometimes ladies, we "want" to lose a guy on the 1st date, don't we? ...read more

  • 18 of 20

    by Clinton Jones

    There are some women that are not 'date' friendly, it used to be a puzzle to me back in the day why so many women I knew ended growing up single and alone but reasons began to surface as I looked deeper. It wouldn't be ...read more

  • 19 of 20

    by Emma Vaughan

    so you on a date and hes dull, ugly, doesnt even make you laugh, dont know why you ever went out with him in the first place, and to add to that hes got smelly breath and now he wants to kiss you heres how to really los...read more

  • 20 of 20

    by Peyton Quinn

    I agree with all then things you list to get rid of a guy. But what I do not grasp is why any of this is play acting is neccessary. What is it you fear? Why not justy tell the guy right off that you just do not have ...read more

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