The seriousness of accusing your spouse of cheating when it hasn't happened can't be overstated. This mind-numbing situation feels like the beginning of the end, or so it would seem at the time. When it's been a wrong assu...read more
Okay, you've done it. You've fallen victim to the rumors, your suspicions and your insecurities. You've sneaked around, spied, broken her trust, and accused her of the unthinkable. In the end, she did not violate your c...read more
If you have accused your spouse of cheating and it turns out that you were wrong then the first thing to do is to breath a sigh of relief! The second thing to do is to apologize. Believing that your spouse has cheated o...read more
by Alissa King
Why is it so hard admit when we are wrong? I suppose it is a pride issue, maybe even a trust issue. Admitting that you are fallible, that your judgment can err, and submitting this admission for another person to evaluate,...read more
You have just accused him of cheating, and he has proved that beyond a shadow of a doubt he has not cheated on you. How do you apologize? What can you say to make it better? Appologizing Be sincere, let him know why...read more
In a world scattered with infidelities, a faithful spouse is often a rarity. This doesn't mean that you have to follow your spouse or keep track of their every move because they may someday go astray. In fact, this is a co...read more
by Angie Lewis
What are the signs of a cheating spouse? Is your spouse cheating or not? Any unusual behavior can be misconstrued as a "sign" of a cheater. Granted, there are some spouses that are more prone to cheating than others and th...read more
by Paul Lines
The silence is almost unbearable. The hurt in the eyes of your spouse feels like a knife tearing at your heart. The trust is draining away like your lifeblood. Why is all of this happening? It is your fault, because you ha...read more
There are moments in a marriage when both people involved need to recognize the gravity of a situation and stop everything they are doing in order to focus on a major obstacle. When it is an outside stress burdening a cou...read more
by WriterGirl
You've been spending less time together and you can't understand why. When you bring it up the only answer you get is they're stressed, or work has taken a lot out of them. Somewhere deep in your stomach you have this gnaw...read more
by Pat Lunsford
When you've falsely accused your faithful spouse of cheating, unless your spouse has given you reason in the past to not trust them, you need to take a serious look at your own insecurities. When a person betrays the trust...read more
There's nothing worse than a cheating spouse. That's why married people get upset when it happens, because the marriage usually contained a statement saying the couple would stay true to each other. Sometimes people thin...read more
You found receipts for dinner for two in your spouse's glove compartment, but you don't remember dining at a fancy Sushi joint. They've been getting phone calls at all hours of the night for the last couple of days. And ...read more
by Melody Chase
Falsely accusing your faithful spouse of having an affair can really throw your relationship for a loop. A loss of trust has occurred and on top of that it leaves you as the perpetrator in a real awkward position of not kn...read more
by Rex Trulove
A good, strong, stable marriage is based on trust, love, and communication. If any of these three are compromised, they all become weaker, and the marriage loses strength. Yet, I can begin to say how many marriages I'v...read more
The thing you need to look at in this situation is the reason you accused him/her of cheating. Is there a problem in your marriage that needs to be fixed? If your marriage is strong, then you would not in your wildest d...read more
by Phil Hill
When you are in love, one of the most important things in your relationship is trust. Yet, for some unknown reason, some of us become so blinded by jealousy that we cannot see that our partner loves us just as much as we l...read more
by Sara Lynn
Asking for forgiveness should be the number one thing that you do. But, on the flip side of things if you were cheated on in a former relationship let your partner know. And explain how it made you feel when you thought ...read more
by RL Barclay
Before facing up to your falsely accused partner it would be a good idea to examine the reasons for your accusations and the validity of such. Also, the extent of your resolve as well as that of your partner to hold on to...read more
by Jim Ruth
What can you do next when you have falsely accused your faithful spouse of cheating? Pray to die on the spot comes immediately to mind, because you've done something nearly as bad as the infidelity you've accused her o...read more
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