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  • 1 of 38

    by Marcus Brooks

    You came home last night and saw her. She laid half-nude in your bed with your husband. The covers were toss unsunder. The room smelled of musk and betrayal. Was it all in your head? As your husband said. Your eyes s...read more

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    by Molly Carter

    Infidelity is one of the leading causes of divorce. Upon learning your spouse has cheated, it's common to feel rage, distrust, sorrow, humiliation, or try and blame yourself for his or her actions. Allow yourself to feel...read more

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    by Mister C

    Tolerating a lying, cheating, scumbag Spouse You both went willingly to the altar, where, before God and those witnesses present, all dressed in their finery, you made certain promises to one another in good faith. The...read more

  • 4 of 38

    by Pamela Trent

    There were scented candles all over the living room. Rose pedals lead up the stairs to the bedroom and a bottle of champagne was chilling on the dining room table along with more candles. Tony was exhausted from work. T...read more

  • 5 of 38

    by Chrissy Harrison

    One of the most hurtful things in a marriage is when a partner cheats. It can leave you with so many unanswered questions and feelings of hurt. When you find that your partner has been disloyal your world just shakes and ...read more

  • 6 of 38

    by Stushie

    One of life's hardest situations is dealing with a cheating spouse. There's no easy way to handle this crisis, and it takes a lot of patience and courage to survive. Here a few suggestions to help you get through this hear...read more

  • by Kim Robinson

    FOR EIGHTEEN YEARS For eighteen years you pretended to be my husband. Gave me your sperm as if it were pure gold, stayed up with sick kids, wiped up puke, and if you could have breast-fed, you would have flung out your...read more

  • 8 of 38

    by jayj

    Your world is shattered into tiny pieces. You look in the mirror and your reflection is the same as it always has been, but you feel changed. You speak to other people with a smile that is upside down. Nothing is, or wi...read more

  • 9 of 38

    by Paul Lines

    Infidelity in marriage is probably the most traumatic experience that can befall any spouse. The pain, anger, hurt, sadness and disappointment can be soul destroying. Amongst all this anguish, what you are also left with i...read more

  • 10 of 38

    by S. Nunley

    You've discovered your spouse or significant other has been unfaithful. Suddenly your entire world is turned upside down and you're in an emotional tailspin. Your emotions run the gamete from furious to heartbroken and t...read more

  • 11 of 38

    by Heidi Marie Fleetfoot

    When a spouse has an affair all of the trust in the marriage flies out of the window. You may want to forgive them but even if you do chances are that you will not be able to forget. The cheating incident will play and rep...read more

  • 12 of 38

    by Marie Hooper

    It is my opinion that this questions is not only loaded, it is also one that has no real right answer. When your spouse cheats you will discover a part of you that you never knew existed. Meet monster. This monster lives ...read more

  • 13 of 38

    by Dona Writz

    A friend once said "Never ask a question you really don't want to hear the answer to. If you're going to ask, be prepared." She was talking about relationships and how another friend had bluntly asked her husband if he ...read more

  • 14 of 38

    by Curtis Carper

    A cheating spouse, where's the gun you say... Seriously, this is a time when you don't want to go off half cocked. Admittedly this will be a male point of view, a practical straightforward male point of view. In the wor...read more

  • 15 of 38

    by Kenny Moss

    Nobody should have to deal with being cheated on. It causes to much pain and suffering for the persons significant other. Not only that, but it also cause problems if they have children. There is only about ten percent of ...read more

  • 16 of 38

    by Angie Lewis

    Forgive and Love a Cheating Spouse Have you tried to forgive your spouse of adultery only to have it all come back to haunt you later? This happens because we have not forgiven in its completeness. Anyone can say they h...read more

  • 17 of 38

    by Nancy Cogar

    This is definitely one of the most traumatic things anyone could deal with. The hurt, anger, betrayal and fear, coupled with the insecurity one feels for the family, particularly if children are involved. The most impo...read more

  • 18 of 38

    by Gary Davis

    Infidelity is the extension of the word infidel; essentially, a traitor. Anyone who has experienced infidelity is probably angry, hurt and sickened. While some people can pull themselves together enough to save the marri...read more

  • 19 of 38

    by T.M. Starnes

    The best way I've always believed once you have it confirmed that your spouse is cheating; and the primary word at the moment is 'cheating', not 'cheated' but the results are the same. Leave them. They were not meant for...read more

  • 20 of 38

    by Just luvin Jones

    Dealing is actually the easiest part. Knowing is the hardest. you may say what do i mean. Somethings are better left unsaid sometimes. I have been married for eleven years and I am an unofficial member of the "I did becaus...read more

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