by P. Zellie
Who Are You? I grew up with a little girl next-door who was petite of build but as tough as a tomboy. Like me, she liked to climb trees, have tea parties in the back yard, and make mud pies after it rained. We would b...read more
by Rob Leal
I myself am a homosexual and was born one so I know first hand who they really are. We are like everyone else in the world. Humans who need to be loved and respected like all others. People tend to believe gays and le...read more
by Scott Taylor
The question "who are the true gays and lesbians?" seeks to define something rather abstract. The terms gay and lesbian have been so socially mutilated, digested, and reconstructed again that it's safe to assume that they...read more
by Tom Robbins
I call myself gay as a flag of convenience. People by nature label each other, at least if I do it myself I get to pick the label I find least offensive. I don't think there is such a thing as 'true' gay and lesbian peo...read more
by Isabel Galdo
Who are the true gays and lesbians?... Well to start off with i've never liked and understood the term of labels. Why are so many of us subjected into these categories?. If I'm supposed to answer the question of 'true' g...read more
by Judy Charles
Many people have different opinions about gays and lesbians some thinks that they adapt this lifestyle because it fun and exhilarating or they just want to experience something new.And they question whether they are true g...read more
After reading the articles about who are the true gays and lesbians, I am still confused. I believe someone is born gay. I also believe that these people have no choice in whom they choose to be romantically involved wit...read more
by The World According to Katie
My name is Katie and my aunt and uncle are homosexuals so this is a very touchy subject for me. Gays and Lesbians are just like everyone else in this world. They are not "sinners" for being homosexual (in fact my uncle was...read more
What sort of a question is this anyway? Who are the true gays and lesbians? I am a lesbian and I came out at age 30. I was married for 8 years but never really enjoyed having sex with my husband. In fact I never even new s...read more
You know honestly people make a whole big deal betweens gays and lesbians. If you think about it anyone can become gay or lesbian. It is basically a mental thing. It is starts out on how you were raised. Some kids felt mor...read more
We all know that being gay is a genetic thing, as proven by all those gay sheep turned hetero for breeding purposes. We also know this because nobody in their right mind would choose to be part of a minority group that isn...read more
There have been many debates whether or not sexuality is a choice. True gays and lesbians do not have a choice. Just like their mirror opposites, true hetrosexuals, true gays and lesbians are attracted to the sex of the p...read more
This is such a complex question. I am 25 years old, I realized I was attracted to a woman when I was 22. Up until then, I had led a hetero-sexual life. I was dating a man for almost 2 years before I broke it off. It...read more
by lazynachos
The question, "Who are the true gays and lesbians?" implies that somewhere there is a manifesto or code or set of rules. The closest I as a gay person have ever come to any such thing, is jokes and playing with stereotype...read more
by Brie
When we look at society in a sexual manner in today's perspective, we see that homosexuals have become widely accepted, unlike the way they were looked upon in the past. Further more, I believe that many more women have tr...read more
This is a very complex question. There are so many shades of gray in sexuality. If you are a man only attracted to men then you are gay. If you are a woman only attracted to women then you are a lesbian. If you are a ma...read more
This isn't a question that can really be answered. It is like asking "What is a true American" or "What is a true Christian." So just reading the statement without any clarification true gays are anyone and everyone. Be...read more
I will call him Mike, for lack of a better alias. He is the one person who I have met that I would now, in my more mature state of mind, consider a true gay male. Growing up, I disliked this boy who seemed to be in every s...read more
by Keesha Leigh
IGNORANCE! Simply, no one can justify what or who you are attracted to and if its real or not. So what does exactly "true" gays mean? Who has the authority to categorize those who are and who are not. With being a lesbian ...read more
The implication of this article is blaming bisexual people for the fact that it is argued that being gay is a choice. I do not beleive that a gay person had a choice as to who they fall in love or lust with. However,...read more
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