There are more than a few reasons why black men are fond of white women, and perhaps in knowing why black men are fond of white women society can learn more about the relationships between white women and black men, how black men perceive themselves in relationships and how one can better get along with black men in general. Myself I am happily married to a black woman though I have been there and made a lot of the arguments that often hear from black men as to why white women are easier to get along with. I've also heard some rather interesting perceptions of where white women see themselves in relationships from older black men who had a bit more wisdom on the subject. These are a few of the reasons black men are interested in white women.

1.) White women communicate differently.

Black men often find that white women are easier to communicate with on the surface and develop interesting friendships with because white women have a way of drawing you into conversations about topics of interest to them without the air of an interpersonal relationship. In other words, in many ways if you are talking to a black woman for a considerable amount of time you either must be interested in her, do not know or realize that you are interested in her, or are perceived as being interested in her. There are times when you will have developed a strong friendship with other black women, at times looking back on it there were friendships that I had I could have maintained or other friendships that I didn't realize that I had until it was long over with. But that sexually charged atmosphere exists; I simply do not get that tension, or feeling talking with a white woman. Of course this depends heavily on the woman as well for whatever reason when it comes to a woman who typically or mostly always dates black men it is a bit different, but there is a sense that the woman isn't interested in you, you aren't sure if you are really interested in them, and conversation tends to be a lot easier.

It is almost as if when talking to another black woman for a considerable amount of time there must be some purpose or meaning behind it. When you aren't you are wasting the womans time or perhaps you aren't utilizing your own time properly. Again that could be my experience, it could also be because I often did not really feel that I had a lot in common with the black women I knew over the years, again, looking back on it I now realize that wasn't always true but at the time

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