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How to tell if you are gay 45 Articles

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    by Thomas Swinscoe

    How to tell if you are gay "How do you tell if you're gay?" You already know the answer, and you are the only person who does! Being gay (or not being gay) isn't something you can analyze and decide. It just is. You...read more

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    by Mike Deakin

    Let's answer the question with another question. Do you regularly have sex or fantasize about having sex with someone of the same gender as yourself? If the answer is yes, then you're gay. If the answer is no then you're ...read more

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    by R. OLAF ERICH

    How to tell if you are gay. Come on! Is this for real? A person knows their sexuality and sexual preference. Sometimes, though, we need to experiment to see what we like and most fits into our life style. If you hav...read more

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    by Karen Miner

    Well, you throw threes sticks on the ground and if they fall without touching each other, voila! You're Gay! Are you kidding me with this question? Sometimes I wonder what heterosexuals (like...read more

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    by Cheral Quinn

    How to tell if you are gay If you even have to ask the question you probably already know the answer. When we are born there are no pre-printed birth certificates that come with us stating what our sexual preferences a...read more

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    by Tina Brewster

    Being able to tell that you are gay is not a simple matter. Some people instinctively know that they are gay and some know that they are not gay. Then, there are the people in the middle who don't have distinct attraction...read more

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    by Heidi Marie Fleetfoot

    The only difference between a heterosexual person and a gay person is that a heterosexual person prefers to have sex with someone of the opposite sex, a gay person prefers their own sex. There are, to my knowledge, no othe...read more

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    by Scott Rosenzweig

    I've read all of these posts and have to say that they seem to be rather clinical in their explanation of how you tell if you're gay. I've always known that I was gay and the fact that I've lived for forty-two years wou...read more

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    by Angela S. Young

    Who in the world decided to use the word gay for homosexuals? Whoever did it, it's here to stay. You no longer want to be "happy and gay" in this day and age. Topic: if you don't know you're gay: YOU'RE NOT! It's that...read more

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    by Alain de Sade

    Gay means happy. Being gay means being playfully happy. And it seems somewhere at some point a man who is playful was not accepted. He acts like a woman, kind of dismissing remark a playful man would get. Between the sheet...read more

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    by Stefanie Neudeck

    First of all: Don't let anyone make you think that being gay is anything bad or abnormal. No matter how you are, you can be sure that you're exactly the way you're supposed to be (if you believe in God you can say that it ...read more

  • 12 of 45

    by Rhonda M.

    Gay is a term used to describe someone who is attracted to the same sex. If you are having feelings toward a member of the same sex don't jump to conclusions just yet. Most all people at some stage in their life will wonde...read more

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    by Misty Cahal

    I was well aware of my sexuality when I was about three years old. I say this because I remember having a crush on Erin Grey when she was in "Buck Rogers" and even at the tender young age of three I knew tat I couldn't tal...read more

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    by Brian Keith Compton

    Repressed feelings about sexual identity has made it difficult for those uncertain if they are gay to come out of 'the closet'. There are some reasons for this doubt and ways to understand the indecision, so one can be tru...read more

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    by Jane Allyson

    Your sexuality is a very personal thing and if you are over the age of puberty and having to ask the question of whether you are gay or not then you are halfway to knowing the answer anyway. The point I am making is tha...read more

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    by Gyne Ryan

    There is really no definite way of knowing you're gay. Some realize it at an early age and, like me, this came to my attention when I was about 14 when I noticed that none of the other boys were attracted to men like I was...read more

  • 17 of 45

    by MysLykeMeeh

    Okay, I'm a gay. Just so simple, isn't it? Not really, telling yourself or accepting the fact that you are a gay may be somewhat take a guts to renounce your being homosexual to the world. If I am attracted to one person w...read more

  • 18 of 45

    by Can Tran

    Your kidding, right? When I first say this article, I just shook my head. I had to, I really just had to shake my head. I don't mean to offend anyone with this opening statement, but are you serious? But then again, no...read more

  • 19 of 45

    by Esthier Jeanne

    I started to write this off as sarcastically as possible, because really, it feels like a stupid question. I mean by the time you're in the sack with another man, you should already have it figured out, but in an age like...read more

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    by Life Experiences

    If you have thoughts of being with a male friend or any man that looks attractive, your not gay. Having these thoughts are completely natural. The day you should think your gay, when you masturbate or have sex with a male ...read more

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