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Sex on the first date?

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    by Persephone Vandegrift

    Having sexual intercourse on a first date is down to personal choice. Both partners must have a say in the matter how far they want things to progress. If it is just casual sex you are looking for, then make that distincti...read more

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    by Charlotte Whitfield-Williams

    I belive that if your going to have sexual intercourse on the first date, that you should already establish that before you even go on the date. Yeah, things tend to just happen. But you also know that before you even go o...read more

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    by Daniel Selzer

    Sex on a first date says a lot about how NOT serious you are about the relationship itself. I'm not saying you have to wait until your marriage night, or that you even have to wait until the one month anniversary. The ...read more

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    by Rachel Skinner

    Sex on the first date? Doesnt this depend on how good the date was? We have a few interesting factors to throw into the mix.. Lets explore.. 1. LUST. This emotion is hot, horny and all "good" intentions will fly o...read more

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    by Daniela Cirignano

    Sorry guys and girls because this is not going to be kind. It may be unfair, it may be narrow minded and it may be a double standard but girls who have sex on the first date are very unlikely to be respected and pursued...read more

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    by Bryan Mc Henry

    Sex on the first date is an age old question that society has shaded with moral issues, when if you can fall in love at first sight, sex on the first date seems like what would come naturally. From a moral standpoint, some...read more

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    by Dedan Tolbert

    A Readers Question: Hey Dedan, How long do you think is too soon for someone getting out of a relationship to start dating again? Like lets say you and your girlfriend were in a long term relationship and then ya'll br...read more

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    by Elaine Sihera

    Is sex right on a first date? There's no question of right or wrong in these cases. That's a value judgement which reflects society's double standards on sex, particularly with regard to women. It also does not take into a...read more

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    by Annie Farfum

    The first thing that needs to be said, is that sex changes a relationship. If you are friends, it launches you into something completely different. If you have been dating, and your next step is the bedroom, it will lead ...read more

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    by Jasmine Austin

    The first date. It usually means getting to know someone better on another level, figuring out if this one person is someone you could have a relationship with. Everyone has their own first date rituals for this preliminar...read more

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    by Rhonda M.

    The age-old question: is it alright to have sex on a first date? The answer to that question lies in the factor of do you really want to see the person again? Choosing sex on a first date does not make your new beau see yo...read more

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    by Ian Black

    As much as the thought of having sex with your new girlfriend on the first date can be increasingly arousing, it would still have to be thoroughly and critically examined. Even though sex is a great part of the relationshi...read more

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    by Aimee Bushong

    Ah the ubiquitous question running through everyone's mind on the first date; to sex or not to sex. Well, the answer can be very different according to which gender we are talking about. As a woman, I might have a complete...read more

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    by Steven Machado

    Absolutely, there should definitely be sex on the first date! Wait come to think of it, no you should wait a bit. Well, maybe - my last girlfriend, we had sex on the first date, and that ended horribly. The girlfriend b...read more

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    by Chenault De Salis

    I had sex with my boyfriend on our first date. I do not regret my decision at all. We were not strangers, and I knew I had feelings for him. He also had intense feelings for me. When the date seemed to be over, I kissed hi...read more

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    by Allen Teal

    How far is too far on a first date? First dates are intended to be a time for getting acquainted. A person should ask questions to learn about the likes and dislikes or maybe the hobbies and ambitions of his or her date. T...read more

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    by John Dandy

    There used to be a superstition in which one did not kiss on the first date, that the anticipation of waiting makes the kiss that much more sweeter, after all you cannot get back that first kiss. In more ways than one th...read more

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    by Amanda Carter

    I am not sure about all the "rules" that accompany dating these days. Do I call him or wait for him to call me? Do I pay, or make him pay? Where should we go on our first date and what should we do on the date? Should I ha...read more

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    by Michael T. Ingram

    With STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) as rampant as they are today, I would have to say "NO!" as emphatically as possible. Enjoying sex with a stranger may be possible for some, but when herpes, AIDS, and all the ...read more

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    by Adrienne Obey

    Sex on the first date...hmmm? Good decision or bad decision? Doesn't it really depend on the situation and the attraction level? Moral and Religious reasons aside...I simply believe this to be a personal choice that tru...read more

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