How to handle a cheating lover 33 Articles

by Arthur Holmes

This is an issue that has left me scared and bruised emotionally, because I was in love with a woman who betrayed our love. What hurts me most is that she lied without hesitation and cheated without remorse, and when sh...read more

by Lady Demure

People who have been betrayed in a romantic relationship experience all sorts of feelings. "Handling" a cheating lover may be a very difficult undertaking. You may think that revenge is the sweetest way of all to "handle...read more

by Percy Light

When faced with a situation like finding out your lover is cheating on you, the effect is definitely detrimental to the relationship. I'm sure you would agree that the gravity of the situation is just as severe if you had ...read more

by Gareth Steward

For the few of you who do want to hang onto a relationship from cheating, don't listen to the people telling you to tell them to push off - sometimes, people are worth holding onto, and while many of you may not agree, mos...read more

by Penelope Pendarvis

My husband never did seem to like me much as a person. We lived pretty separate lives. He watched his tv and never wanted conversation, so I buried the hurt and busied myself with the kids, cooking and housework. I assu...read more

by Basketcasemama

This is almost a laughable title. A cheating lover. How oxymoronic. If he/she loves you, then why are they cheating? What to do about it really depends on you. In my personal experience, which is fairly significant in t...read more

by Louise Breland

If you have a lover that is cheating, plain and simple, "get rid of him!" I say that because, no matter what you do it will not be enough to stop him when his little head becomes aroused by someone else. This is a man t...read more

by Emma Rose

It is so easy to brand a cheater a "scumbag", "asshole" and all that nasty stuff. 5 years ago, if you had asked me what i would do if my lover had cheated on me, I'd have said "That's easy, I'll leave his sorry ass and nev...read more

by Anita G

My ex husband disappeared for a week. He was a "recovering" alcoholic who had a relaps and did a week long binge at a friend's house. Finally he came home and we tried to put it in the past. One morning I woke up and to...read more

by Linda Lewellen

I can feel it in my heart,see it in his eyes. I just know he is seeing someone else on the side. But the truth is so painful .SO what do I do ? Accusing him will only give him reason to be untrue. I must admit some of...read more

by Sheryl Lloyd

My advice is this. If it is your husband or wife, I feel that you need to seek counseling and try to make the marriage work because God do ordain marriage. However, if you are just dating and the person is cheating; I woul...read more

by DDIGGITTY

It's all about "trust", It means so much to have it, but means so much to lose it. I was thinking about the unsurmountable action of losing trust from someone you love or care for. This loss closes all doors between ...read more

by ktarcus

Mainly questions that you ask yourself shortly after the anger has subsided, like What did I do wrong? Why does he/she prefer that over me? I thought we were OK What did I do wrong? When did I start doing things wr...read more

by Dayle Hall

I don't really believe that there is a way to handle a cheating lover it is up to you to decide whether or not you are prepared to forgive that person for cheating on you, and whether you can trust them not to do it again...read more

by Nicole Crowley

Well let's just get the cliche out there... "once a cheater always a cheater." Now, I don't believe this is necessarily true. However, if you're the one getting cheated on, you always have that in the back of your mind. ...read more

by C Davison

I had suspicions for some time that my mate was less than faithful. He couldn't entirely meet my eyes when he came home sometimes. He spent way more time at work than he ever had before, and he waffled from being overly ...read more

by Scott Burbank

The first thing to remember is "his/her happiness." If you can base all your reactions and expectations around making your partner as happy as they can be, that is key in a relationship. Usually when someone is caught chea...read more

by Angie Szyjkowski

You don't waste your time handling anything with a cheater, you leave their sorry excuse for a life-mate. Life is incredibly short, and it should be lived to the fullest, everyday you should find something new and interes...read more

by Linda Herman

Is there anything more painful than finding out the person you love and trust has betrayed you? It's hard to imagine the love of your life being intimate with another. It breaks your heart. You feel every emotion from A...read more

by Lisa Lopez

How to handle a cheating lover! well, wouldn't we all like to know how to react, in situations of a deceiving lover that happens to be sharing your bedroom sheets with that sexy Gardner, or his so called secretary maybe ...read more