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Is misleading him (a man who confidently approaches you in public for the first time) really the best possible option if you are straight away feeling that he is not the one you might get tempted to go out and let alone sleep with for your and his first date? As you very well know, here I am talking about giving away either fake telephone numbers or fake email addresses. Are you scared to tell him the truth of not fancying him because you believe that he would harm you in any way that you can just imagine during those sensitive moments of meeting him for the very first time? Have you ever thought or simply tried to imagine how he might be feeling at the moment of discovering the painful truth when trying to phone or email you later? Have you ever asked yourself how you might get to feel if you were to happen to be in his shoes? Furthermore, what if you and he accidentally run across each other later again? Would your face start blushing and then you going for the fastest run ever in your life as you are not willing to admit your own guilt? Any idea of how he could react at the unexpected seeing you for the second time after having realised you lied to him by leaving the incorrect contact details about yourself?

Now, it is pretty obvious that lying to others actually means lying to yourself. Funnily enough, I have come to a conclusion that the lying option might most likely be resting on the fact that most women do not like to stand up to the unexpected challenge of exploring the adventurous man's first approach background or his real reasons because women tend to automatically associate such "brave" or "making things happen" gentlemen with potential bad characters from the book that they have read or perhaps the Hollywood movie that they have watched. Do you think that misleading him with your lies is really a fair way of your approaching and dealing with the generous, self-initiative action of the man who initially confidently approached you and wanted to keep in contact in order to get to know you better? Having experienced the above mentioned women's lying practice on many occasions (please, note that here I am not criticising all the women on the planet Earth because I must also say that there are still women out there who do not mind appreciating and welcoming such self-initiative, sociable men's efforts because they might be of a kindred extrovert soul or penetrating character) I have concluded that all this might be resulting

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