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Teenagers versus adults: The struggle in understanding one another

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    by nikkie page

    "I bleed it out, dig it deeper and I throw it away!" I'm singing at the top of my lungs with a music video as I dust when I turn and see my daughter and her friends Barb and Mark looking on in stunned horror. Barb states. ...read more

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    by Martha Rhodes

    Did you put onions in that? Every time I am asked this question by one of our girls, I can just feel the hair stand up on the back of my neck. While making tuna salad the other day, my daughter asked the question that j...read more

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    by Patrick Hendry

    When I was your age ..the guaranteed magic phrase to make any teenager reach for the off button. When you think about it, we have never been and never can be 15 years old in the year 2007, that is reserved for our offsprin...read more

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    by PS Gifford

    Time perception. There must be something about time that is different when you are fourteen years old. Or at least that is the case for my son; Jonathan. Time, as a rule, goes by much more rapidly for him then for th...read more

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    by Karyn Burchall

    We've all been there, struggling with the inner (and outer) turmoil that is a fundamental element in the journey from childhood to adulthood. We tentatively watched the mirror as our bodies slowly changed shape, looked on ...read more

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    by Rebecca Dyson

    Raising teenagers is far more challenging than raising any other age group. This is true even if a parent has raised a child from birth to be respectful and compliant with rules and appropriate social behavior. Why? Becaus...read more

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    by lalah

    It is a daily routine, in my household, for there to be screaming, cussing, and just constant bickering. Usually the arguments are over something so simple. It seems like the anger between every member in my house has just...read more

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    by Helen Tay

    I am a proud mother of three. I have two boys aged sixteen and thirteen and a daughter aged nine. They mean the world to me. My eldest son whom I dearly love does make me think how I can be a more understanding mothe...read more

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    by Vermelle Maddox

    When it comes to you and your teenagers communication the very first thing i have to say is remember that you to were once a teenager and you made mistakes that made you hopefully become a responsible adult. The most im...read more

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    by Brenda Lee Chew

    Adults and Teenagers have been having trouble for years with communication. Over the years that I have had 43 teenagers placed in my home. I have had the chance to try to help the families build a better relationship. P...read more

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    by Elizabeth Flores

    We have to start by how far apart are the parents and their teens. I mean when you as a parent had your child at a young age, let's say you had your child at age 15 you are not 30 and she is 15. There are going to be some ...read more

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    by Elisa Bressan

    One of the biggest worries for adolescents is their appearence. The body changes so rapidly, spot breaking out , for these reasons teenagers spend so much time in front of the mirror. In fact when I was a teenager I wasn...read more

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    by Jessica Bordelon

    Counseling An At Risk Teen on Setting Goals for Improving Their Life & the Follow Through: When counseling someone you should understand this: The path to a truth or to a goal is a journey to be taken between you and you...read more

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    by Danielle Hewson

    Teenagers and adults aren't that different, but i bet in your opinion they are. As i'm stuck at the minute, just crossing from being a teenager into adulthood i can see the similarity. Teenagers think they have their pr...read more

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    by Kim Boss

    It's hard to decide where to start. At this point in time I am raging with anger when I think about the struggle in understanding adults; in particular one adult. She happens to be someone that used to be very close to me....read more

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    by Raymond Ellis

    Why is that that teens and parents have problems communicating with each other? It is because they both worship power. You see we divide our attention between the power and the precision of our actions. Too much power and ...read more

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    by Teresa Kulzer

    Teens vs. Adults aren't we all the same? Think about it how much different are you now then you were back then? Admit it if we could all be as carefree as we were in high school we would be. The problem, we want things. ...read more

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    by Chrystal Patton

    Remember when we were young? Why is it so different now? I just don't understand why things have changed so much over the years. Why is it that we can't discipline our children in public without worry of being arrested on ...read more

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    by Justin Barry

    Living in a World of Hate, Violence, and Nuclear War, as a Teenager: Everything a Parent Needs to Know When you watch the news tonight or tomorrow morning, listen to the lead stories. My guess is that 99% of the...read more

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    by Abigail Kaye

    Ah the immortal phrase uttered by many a teenager. Often comes in the form of, "You don't understand me" or "you just don't get it". I bet you of the parent generations remember what it was like to be a teenager? You know,...read more

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