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Communicating with negative people and the effect it has on your happiness 31 Articles

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    by Sheila-Ann Bender

    Energy vampires. Human black holes which come out of nowhere and just suck the life right out of you. That's what a number of self-help gurus have named negative people. They're also known as sob sisters, blamers, drama ...read more

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    by Jen Darien

    Toxic personalities: We have all heard this term. Almost all of us know someone this description applies to perfectly. The trick with negative people is to let it exist in their sphere, not yours. Negativity is somethin...read more

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    by Terry Marsh

    Negative people can have a significant impact on how we view life. But at some point, we must ask ourselves if we're in control of your own environment, or do we allow others rain on our parade? There are those who will a...read more

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    by Darcey Lee

    Negative people are known to be positive energy vampires. Automatically when you communicate with someone who is the voice of doom, this pulls your positive energy down. Not that it changes how you may think, but commu...read more

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    by Tina Michael

    I used to be negative person. When someone said something positive, I would put a dampener on it and say something negative. On being told I was being negative, I would retort by saying I was just being realistic (cring...read more

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    by Susan Quilty

    Negative people are the Eeyores of the world. Like Winnie the Pooh's donkey friend, they bring down everyone around them. They habitually complain, wallow in self-pity and create problems where none exist. Even their co...read more

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    by Leann Zotis

    We all have support systems in the world around us. These people can be friends, family, neighbors or co-workers. There's no escaping them on one level or another. A strong, positive support system can encourage us to s...read more

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    by Debby Peebles

    The title of this debate should be; "Is it possible to communicate with negative people without them affecting your happiness, negatively." Communication is always a two way street. An opportunity for exchange between peo...read more

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    by Daniel Creil

    Almost everyone knows at least one negative person. A negative person complains all the time about something. He says words like: "You won't make it" or "He is too weak to do this". He criticizes everyone he knows and does...read more

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    by DJ Triplett

    My nickname from childhood is "ladybug," derived from an song popular when I was born. My sister's nickname wasn't as cute. She was called "pickle," and it I wasn't very old when I discovered why. Later, she earned anot...read more

  • by Kristin Castle

    Opposites Attract...But Can they Survive? I found him just after I found myself. At 25 years old, I was beaming with happiness, strength and positivity. I had discovered the young woman I wanted to be. I had survived a...read more

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    by Helen Tay

    When we communicate with people, it is our intention to get across what needs to be said and be understood by the other person. When we have communicated effectively, events work like clock work and we are happy. It is o...read more

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    by L. Beall

    Communicating with negative people can bring you down far below their level of unhappiness. Sometimes impossibe to avoid negative people they have to be dealt with. It will lead to your stress level rising simply from thei...read more

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    by Alex Landis

    It's undeniably true that there will always be people in this world who see the glass as half empty. These are your negative people, who typically see the worst in a situation, no matter what the situation may be. Communic...read more

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    by Kenneth Hofmann

    My advice to anyone out there that is in a relationship with a negative person is too limit the time you spend with those people. Negative people are usually around and they are easy to spot. They are grumpy, complain ab...read more

  • by Melissa D. Ing

    Negativity is contagious; left unchecked it can have disastrous effects on your happiness. Much like a virus, negativity spreads quickly from person to person and can effect a whole household, business setting or classroom...read more

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    by Todd Pheifer

    Do you adapt to your surroundings? Most people do on some level. The reason this is relevant is that dealing with negative people has a lot to do with how much you change when you are in different environments. Of cours...read more

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    by Vicki Phipps

    The other day, I asked a friend of mine, "How are you doing?" She hesitated for what seemed too long and then she simply said, "I guess I'm fine." Immediately I knew what was coming next. She'd go into a long rendition ...read more

  • 19 of 31

    by Kelly George

    Strategic Timeout How about this one? The only way to gain control is to relinquish it. I have to be honest I tried it. It is extremely hard to learn but once you get past those first few steps, it comes almost naturally,...read more

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    by A. Major

    Negativity runs in the family. My mother was born with it. I was raised with it. Unknowingly, I passed this gene on to my son. Negative people suffer from low self-esteem. They think they are not worthy. When I w...read more

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