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Testimonies: Is there shame in being a virgin? 15 Articles

  • 1 of 15

    by Emily Elizabeth Ellis

    A very good friend of mine recently celebrated her 21st birthday. As to be expected, almost everyone at the party was getting drunk - what else is there to do at a 21st birthday, right? I am not much of a drinker myself, n...read more

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    by Jennifer Wells

    I was a virgin for twenty-one years, and have never been ashamed of that fact. I was raised in a home where abstinence was taught and encouraged, and went on to a college that encouraged the same practice. Did this guarant...read more

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    by Gwen Doria

    I'm 27 and damnably single. I say so in my profile. And yes, I am a virgin. I am not ashamed to admit that. I have not had many opportunities to have sex because I choose not to put myself to the point where there's no tur...read more

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    by Jeffrey Bowman

    I am twenty-seven years old and I am a virgin. Does that shock you? Do you feel like laughing at me? Honestly, I would expect most people to be both shocked and amused. Some of you might be reading this article and laughin...read more

  • 5 of 15

    by Gina Barr

    NO SHAME AT ALL There is absolutely no shame in being a virgin. Nothing wrong with it at all. I liked being a virgin, back when I was. Having lived in celibacy for a long time now, I can remember who I was back then. ...read more

  • 6 of 15

    by A. L. Sugden

    With today's media, it can be hard to see value in virginity anymore. Virgins are called losers, prudes, nerds, and other unmentionable titles. According to movies, TV shows, and teen websites, the cool people are sexually...read more

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    by Vinny Knowles

    I was in my late twenties and was in the doctors office for an exam. He asked me if I was sexually active. I replied "No". He said, you mean currently right? I replied "No, I am a virgin." He was amazed. I guess I was an o...read more

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    by Joilene Rasmussen

    When My Prince Came Riding When I met my future husband, it became immediately obvious that he was not a virgin. At 38 years old, I hardly expected him to be, but it was disconcerting, knowing that he was comparing me w...read more

  • 9 of 15

    by Jessica Herd

    I just recently turned 20 years old. I'm still a virgin. Being a virgin for me is the most conflicting position to be in. Is there shame in being a virgin? Personally, I feel none. However, I feel like the world wants me, ...read more

  • 10 of 15

    by Ariele Chow

    Sex - a three-letter word feared by many. A word that is feared even more is "virgin." As much as people fear losing their virginity, many are more afraid of not losing it. In today's society, there are multitudinous reaso...read more

  • 11 of 15

    by Christopher Kendalls

    The hypocrisy of American culture astounds me. For years we cried foul about the fact that teenagers were loosing their virginity and then we cried foul again to think that tweens were performing sexual acts, yet were tec...read more

  • 12 of 15

    by Barbara Akowuah

    If someone were to ask me, are you a virgin? I would gladly nod my head yes all the while giving a slight grin. The grin of course proves that I know that this is something rare nowadays being in my early 20's and being a ...read more

  • 13 of 15

    by Patricia Wray

    I remember my middle school years with mixed feelings. What I remember most about these years is the 'Not Me, Not Now' campaign that went on in the 90s, encouraging youth to wait to have sex. I remember public service anno...read more

  • 14 of 15

    by Kitsune Konno

    There is no shame in being a virgin. I was proudly a virgin myself until I was 17 and a half. I wanted to wait until I was either married or very much in love with the person I was with. I lucked out. I was dating this ado...read more

  • 15 of 15

    by Peggy Molloy

    I would think being a virgin in today's day and age, should be a badge of courage. There is nothing great about being sexually knowledgeable, except regarding safety. I hate these movies that make fun of the female persp...read more

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