by Paul Lines
The front door closes as your ex-spouse leaves the house never to return. Suddenly all is quiet and you are facing the prospect of a life of you are as you return to being single again. Whilst this initial impact is hard f...read more
by Jane Allyson
Becoming single again after a divorce may come as a shock and some people are left with overwhelming emotions that they struggle to cope with. The huge part of adjusting to being single again is accepting that you do not h...read more
When you became engaged you began your life together. You planned the wedding and probably agonized over every little detail of the blessed event. During the planning phases and all of the excitement you dreamed and planne...read more
Your divorce is final and suddenly you find yourself single again. You've divided assets, settled custody of the children and family pets, and divided mutual friends. You don't immediately realize it, but you are about to ...read more
Adapting to a single life is a big adjustment to have to make after being part of a married couple. How you feel about this new venture depends very much on the circumstances of your divorce. If you had an unwanted break-u...read more
The divorce is final, the lawyer is paid, and you are legally single again. With the signed papers come good news, and bad news. The good news is you can go out to a fancy restaurant to eat out on a whim; the bad news is...read more
Even if you have survived your divorced and have the papers to prove it, there may be still be big adjustments needed before you feel comfortable being single again. There are several things you might consider doing to hel...read more
Readjusting to the single life after divorce may seem to be as different as night and day. Your situation may vary depending on how long you were in the relationship, whether or not you had children, and what note you ende...read more
The ink has dried and the divorce is final, but before you start settling into the party scene, bar-hopping, and engaging in the occasional one-night stand, you may want to consider a different approach to the single life....read more
If you are single once again there may be many issues you still have to deal with. Some may have spent many years in that one relationship while others may have gotten married only after a short time. Still, there is one p...read more
by L. Beall
Your divorce is final after months of going back and forth with lawyers and your spouse. It is time to start a new life and you have no idea how. The idea of being single again can be scary if you have come to depend on yo...read more
Divorce can happen at any age. Suddenly here you are, a single person again, and it is almost like a new learning process to get used to being single. Where in marriage, you had the interests of the family at heart and per...read more
Any change is difficult and it takes time to adjust. Adjusting to being single again is no exception. I remember when I first go divorced, I was terrified to be single. I didn't want to be alone and I felt incomplete. I wa...read more
Got a divorce? Get a plan. For good or ill, your marriage is over. Whatever plans you had about buying a house together, paying for the kids college and taking that vacation in the Bahamas are out the window, permanent...read more
Some important adjustments that need to be made after a divorce include the need to dive into the single life, avoiding non-productive groups and taking advantage of newly found freedom, no matter how short the period beco...read more
You were married; you have costumed your self to a certain life routine, you know what you're doing tomorrow and with whom. Everything is organized. But you're not happy, and things are obviously not working out for you or...read more
by Julie Bruce
I was terrified of having to start all over again with another person after leaving my spouse. In fact this thought was the very reason I stayed with him long after I'd realized our relationship had gone sour. There was ...read more
by Ray Fauteux
There appears to be a direct relationship between how long a marriage lasts and how long it will take a person to adjust to the single lifestyle all over again once the divorce takes place. Especially when you consider...read more
by G. Schettino
Take It Day By Day Having recently gone through this myself, I can tell you, it isn't easy. Probably the hardest part to deal with is that feeling that you have failed. What's worse, marriage is one of those things we...read more
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