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    by Karen O'Neill Brown

    The unthinkable has actually happened and you are reeling from the shock of finding that your partner is having an affair. All those nagging doubts and suspicions that you had pushed to the back of your mind have been rea...read more

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    by Brandy Willoughby

    How do you cope when you find out your husband is cheating? There is no simple answer. Webster's dictionary has two definitions of the word "cope". One is "to struggle or deal, on fairly even terms with some degree of succ...read more

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    by bettyc

    How would you deal with your husband's indiscretions? Would you forgive and try to forget to maintain a lifestlye that you have become accustomed to? Would you involve yourself in a game of tit-for-tat, with the hope that ...read more

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    by Tim Thacker

    If you are experiencing hurt due to a spouse's extramarital affair(s), keep in mind that you are not the first to experience this type of pain. It is gut-wrenching, and it is always present, as if is now a part of your ver...read more

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    by Pj Cioffi

    An affair is a devastating experience. When coming upon the realization of being betrayed, a person can feel humiliation, anger, regret, fear, animosity, shock, sadness, depression, the list goes on and on. Mixed togethe...read more

  • 6 of 41

    by Elaine Sihera

    The Very First Step in Dealing With Betrayal As everyone who has experienced some form of infidelity knows, it is not an easy thing to deal with betrayal. Apart from any sex involved, there is usually verbal abuse or ...read more

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    by Kristen Houghton

    When He Cheats-Coping With Infidelity Nothing destroys a married relationship more than when a spouse cheats. Many issues are affected in the relationship, the least of which is trust. The self-esteem of the hurt spous...read more

  • 8 of 41

    by David Tindell

    Call it love, call it romance, it is called so many things. But it is always eventually called a relationship, a series of promises that place two people's hopes and emotions into their two hopeful, grasping hands. Yet, th...read more

  • 9 of 41

    by Carly Johnson

    The dreaded A word. I am talking about "Affair". Can a marriage truly survive infidelity? To some, it is an unforgivable act, and if it happens, the marriage is over. The question is, does it have to be? Believe it or...read more

  • 10 of 41

    by Rachel Reyna

    Coping with an affair is something that is truly on a case by case basis. I found that you can have an opinion and clearly declare what you will do and say if you are not in the shoes or have never been in the shoes of so...read more

  • 11 of 41

    by Michelle Ann Newton

    Coping with an affair requires answers, or perhaps, a particular answer, "why?" Whether you decide to stay or leave, sooner or later, you will have to cope with an affair. But contention is an ambiguous endeavor. An...read more

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    by PC Marks

    Coping with an affair is primarily left up to the parties involved and no easy task. It's a matter of what you will and will not tolerate. The offending party has to understand the devastation of the relationship cau...read more

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    by Alexandra Heep

    If you are fortunate, you have never had to deal with your spouse or significant other having an affair. However, chances are that you know someone who has, or perhaps it has happened to you at one point, or may happen in...read more

  • 14 of 41

    by Linda L Kinyon

    Whether its an affair of the mind or an affair in the flesh, an affair is an affair. So why would someone risk everything for an affair? Usually there is an underlying cause and rarely does it have to do with sex. Sometim...read more

  • 15 of 41

    by McJess

    Marriage is difficult, in the least. Even when love and support exists on a regular basis, there will be days when your patience is put to the test by your spouse. However, the rewards will always come from work, comprom...read more

  • 16 of 41

    by Michelle Meier RN BSN

    Whoever said ignorance is bliss has never been on the betrayal end of an extra marital affair. Granted, not all of us are blindsided by the revelation of our spouse's unfaithfulness, but sometimes only in retrospect do we ...read more

  • 17 of 41

    by Matthew Brendal

    This is the best way to cope. Writing the truth like in the old days on the crime shows. Just the facts, the names were changed to protect the innocent. Hey writing a book or story is the best revenge and revenge is the be...read more

  • 18 of 41

    by Honey Domingo

    Coping With An Affair - Trust, takes a lifetime to build. It takes only a suspicion to shatter that trust forever. So how would one deal with an affair. With the trust lost, where does one begin? My opinion is ...read more

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    by N. Poe

    Coping with an affair deals a lot with the human emotions. But like every other aspect in life, attitude controls the outcome. Though at first finding out about the affair may seem as if it is the end of the world, Hitler ...read more

  • 20 of 41

    by Cary Ballas

    "I destroy trust. I dimish the quality of a relationship. I smash memories and years of dedication, loyalty, and stablity. I hurt everyone in my family. I destroy memories, plague sanity, and create a foundation that is...read more

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