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During the golden age of Broadway, a gentleman would carry a cane to the theatre. Today, he carries a cell phone. That's fine, except he doesn't seem to want to turn it off.

A lady, meanwhile, used to come to the show dripping in jewels. Today she's dripping with sarcasm. You know this because she's making loud comments throughout the performance.

It was only a matter of time before the MTV generation met the theatre people. Some of them are woefully unaware of proper theatre etiquette and this clash of cultures makes for an uncomfortable experience.

To make things easier, let's review some theatre etiquette tips.

1) TURN OFF ALL DEVICES.

This is LIVE theatre, not the DVD. You can't take a call in the middle of it.

2) LISTEN TO THE RULES AND FOLLOW THEM.

Most of the time, flash photography is prohibited. There is no smoking. Don't reach for that Baby Ruth bar, food and drinks aren't usually allowed either.

3) LET THE USHER SEAT YOU

Smile and thank them for the program.

4) SIT DOWN

Guys, this is not Yankee Stadium. You can't bump down five rows to get a better view. Also, don't get up in the middle of a performance. At most, you'll be there for an hour or so before intermission. Ladies, there's no delicate way to put this, but most theatres did not properly plan for plumbing needs. Lines can be long. Plan accordingly.

5) APPLAUD WHEN OTHERS DO

If theatre is new to you, it's best to wait for others to applaud and then follow suit. The same is true with standing ovations and yelling "bravo" and "encore".

6) COMMENT AFTER THE SHOW

Part of the experience is going out to eat afterwards and discussing what you saw. Talking during the performance is rude. So is commenting on it in the lobby. Let others experience it for themselves. Quite frankly, they're not paying to hear your opinion.

7) LINE OF SIGHT

A large hat or hairdo will ruin it for the person behind you. More importantly, don't shift in your chair. If you do, the person in back will have to do the same. Also, you're not there to make out. It will be a distraction to others.

8) THE OVERTURE

Please be quiet during the overture. It's part of the performance.

9) DRESS UP

Gentlemen, a tuxedo is no longer required, but wearing a tie and jacket shows respect for the performers as well as your date.

10) STAY UNTIL THE END

Traffic will be there whether you leave early or not. Stay and enjoy the curtain calls. You might even get the chance to meet the cast.

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