We all sometimes make bad choices because the future is unknown and we don't usually realize that they aren't the best decisions at the time. If we could see the sometimes terrible outcomes we'd be equipped to choose the best routes to take.

Nevertheless we don't possess this kind of foresight until we've learned from our mistakes and this is a good thing because through a series of errors we eventually obtain wisdom.

The impact being aware of something has on us will be deeper if we know about it through personal experience rather than that we were told about it. For example, if a child is told that if they play with matches they might get burnt the deterrent won't be as permanently etched in the mind as if they had an experience of being burnt. Memories of our mistakes can be valuable lessons.

I've made many bad choices throughout my life and now I'm older am finding that I'm able to guide younger ones and have plenty of advice to give them about correcting their mistakes because I've had to correct mine.

This is a positive outcome of my worst choices. We have the ability to draw something positive from any of our negative experience when we become wise enough to do so. Life is a learning process and this is the way it's meant to be, otherwise we'd all enter the world knowing everything!

The worst thing we can do following making a bad choice is to allow ourselves to be dragged down by it because one step isn't the whole journey. The thing to do is to pick ourselves up and continue on, perhaps a little more cautiously approaching the next decision we're forced to make.

In some instances a bad choice will be an extremely good thing when it prevents us from making an even worse choice later on. We can gain knowledge from everything we do so should acquire the skills to thoughtfully negotiate our way through life with the help of its previous lessons.

I've often allowed my unwise moves to haunt me afterward and found that living with regret and guilt isn't helpful whatsoever. Nowadays I don't regret anything; I simply keep walking forward because there's no need to look back.

I'll certainly make mistakes in future but they probably won't be as devastating as the ones in the past because I'm more careful now and have gained wisdom from my previous errors.

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