audience that they make a new list of all the qualities that their perfect person would want in their perfect person and then to simply focus on becoming a person with those qualities.
The Law of Attraction has gained acclaim for a reason, it works. Not only that but it gives us back the power and personal responsibility to not only have a perfect relationship but to to have the perfect life. It's refreshing to know that we can continue to attact more by simply being more. It all begins with having a love affair with yourself. It's time to forgive yourself, let go of your fear, and switch your focus to all the ways that you are extraordinary. This is usually done in baby steps. Some of us just plain don't like ourselves. An example is someone who hates being alone. If a person doesn't even like their own company, who else will? So begin by doing things that make you feel good and that are good for you such as scenic walks, watching the sunrise, bubble baths, reading inspiring books, and avoiding negative people and negative media such as the news which are obstacles to being happy.
When we aren't in love with ourselves, we tend to have a strong feeling to reach out and find someone who will take away the loneliness and make it all better. If we attract based on who we are, would we really want the person we would attract when we are desperate, feeling sad and not at our best? Absolutely not! You are the angel you have been waiting for. Love and nurture yourself and you will never have to "try" or "get" the perfect relationship; it will come to you. If the energy you put out is of confidence, well being, integrity and love, it won't matter if your perfect person is on the other side of the planet; you will shine to them like a beacon of light and they will find you.
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