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There is no doubt that fathers should have equal custody rights to their children. They were equally responsible for creating the children, so they should have equal rights in raising them. When parents divorce the children shouldn't suffer. They deserve to have a relationship with both parents. They are divorcing each other not the kids.

Men are just as capable as women when it comes to raising children. Love and nurturing aren't qualities restricted to only women. Fathers know how to kiss a boo boo better and even how to look after a sick dolly. There are no gender requirements for reading your kids stories, doing homework or tucking them into bed. Men are even known to be able to cook, and bake cookies. My dad makes a mean macaroni and cheese.

Too often the mother's motives aren't out of concern for her children, but out of anger at her husband. The children are used as pawns in her game of revenge. She tries to get back at him by denying him access to the kids. Some women even go as far as making false allegations against their husband. This to me is very selfish and is not acting in the best interest of the children. In all actuality it is as hurtful to the children as it is to father. Any unresolved feelings have nothing to do with the relationship between the kids and their father.

A male presence is needed in every child's life. Whether the children are boys or girls. Men tend to see things from a different perspective. Kids need the benefit of learning things from a man's point of view as well as a woman's. Men really are capable of teaching and guidance.

The days of automatically assuming the mother is the better parent are over. Gender should not be the deciding factor with the issue of custody. Both parents should have the opportunity to share in the custody of their kids. Likewise, children should have the opportunity to be with both parents.

I must tell you, I am writing this from the point of view of a single mother. I have always welcomed and encouraged any time my ex wants to spend with our son. As far as I'm concerned he deserves it and it is his right to Know his father.

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