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Fear Of Love
Love can be a very exciting experience. If you're blessed with the right person in your life. Love can also turn into a miserable experience. Over my years, I've experience them both. I prefer the more exciting experiences. Once you have went through a relationship, that caused you great pain. It's hard to allow your heart to love again.

The fear of being hurt again. Plays like a little recorder in the back of your mind. Every one on this earth wants to be loved and accepted. It's just human nature. When we open our heart up to love, we risk the chance of being hurt. You may love someone, who may not love you back. In the same way that you love them.

In my life, it alway seem like, the minute I allow my heart to love again. I'm the one pouring everything that I have into the relationship. Only to get overlooked and not appreciated. When I love someone, I love hard. I truly love that person with all of my heart. What I discover over the years. Is that some people just aren't worth of your love.

This may sound cruel to some. I'm speaking in reference to my own personal experiences. I learn that the more I would demonstrate, my love to a particular person. The more I got taken for granted. The person knowing that I were going to be there, no matter what. Once I'm committed to an individual, I am committed.

When you commit your love to one person, for so many years. They do you wrong, the fear to love again is there. I found myself backing out of potential loving relationship. Due to the fear of being hurt again. In my mind the song plays "well let me end it, before they do". "Let me brace myself, for another relationship, disappointment".

Any small little signs, that showed me. The possible of being hurt or not love. I will just end it. This is not a healthy way to live, your life. Like a scared newborn calf, we have to allow others to nurture us. Until, we're strong enough. Having a fear of love will hinder you, from that particular soul mate.

When ever, they attempt to reach out to you. You withhold your love from them. After, so ,many attempt to love you. Eventually, they'll become tired and move on to someone else. I know that love have it's good and bad side of it. which would you rather have in your life? Being loved by someone, or being alone for the rest of your life?

Love is a gift from God. We're not our own, we have been bought with a price. God intended for humans to love one another freely. If God love us freely and unconditional. Why, can't we love another, in the same fashion?

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