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Breastfeeding - What Lamaze and La Leche Won't Tell You

You are in your last term of pregnancy. You are planning to breastfeed your baby. You've heard all about the benefits of nursing and you are ready to be Earth Mom Extraordinaire.

And then you have the baby. I won't go into labour details; someone else can give you the cold hard facts about that. I'm going to give the cold hard facts about breastfeeding.

This article is not intended to discourage you, in fact just the opposite. I believe if you get all the facts up front you will be better prepared and less likely to give up.

Cold Hard Fact #1 You May Not Have Milk Right Away

It can take up to a week for your milk to come in, especially if you have a C-section. In the meantime, you have this tiny little person sucking on nipples that have nothing or little nourishment to deliver, and it hurts. Oh, you have that colostrum stuff, but that doesn't keep those brand new stomachs full. A lot of women have to supplement with formula for the first week. Don't feel like a failure and don't worry about nipple confusion. No one I have met who was committed to breastfeeding and had to supplement ever had an issue with nipple confusion. It may be a myth. Babies are pretty smart.

Cold Hard Fact #2 Maternity Ward Nurses are Breastfeeding Nazis

They will grab your breast against your will, push it and kneed it and try to shove it in the baby's mouth. Don't let them do this to you. Tell them that it's your body, your baby, and thanks but no thanks. It also seems that no matter how well you think you are doing, they will tell you that you are doing it wrong. Don't listen to them! Cave women figured this out, you sure can.

Cold Hard Fact #3 Engorgement Hurts Like Heck

When that milk finally does come in, it hurts, man it hurts. The girls will be rock hard and full. So full that your nipples will flatten and your poor newborn can't get a hold. You may have to express or pump some milk out just to nurse. You might also want to try a frozen cabbage leaf in each bra cup. It seems to bring a lot of comfort.

Cold Hard Fact #4 You Will Leak

Use nursing pads and don't leave home without them. Nothing is worse than being at the grocery store and seeing a big round wet circle or two down front. You also have to be prepared for squirting. I can't tell you how many times in the first few months I took out a boob and had a little milk fountain hit my hubby in the face (he did not enjoy this, but I always got a good laugh out

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