Men to avoid forever, happens to be a subject in which I have much experience. Being a fast learner, one of the first things I learned when it came to men was that you can't judge the book by its cover.

The Womanizer:
A womanizer can spot a vulnerable woman over a crowded room. They have a special antenna for weak, lonely women and are usually very charming in a gentle kind of way. They know exactly what to say and how to say it in order to exploit the woman's vulnerability.

Once you've been exploited by a womanizer, they're usually easy to spot. Commonly, they're quite full of themselves, which is part of their charm; thinking they're "all that " when nine times out of ten, they're not. But many women are turned on by men who are very self confident, especially in the area of sex. And they all consider themselves the ultimate woman pleaser, and virtual sex machine.

The Pathetic Looser:
The victim had parked in the parking lot of the caf that she frequented at the time and he pulled up in a very expensive truck, which was impressive. They approached the door of the caf at the same time where he smiled, tipped his hat and held the door for her. Then he followed her to the counter and sat beside her.

Over coffee and grilled cheese, they talked for nearly an hour when he said he had to go see about his construction crew, and asked if she would accompany him. When they got to the construction site, she stayed in the truck as he shook hands with his men, pointing around at the construction.

They had talked all morning and he asked her out to dinner. She accepted. He didn't show up. There was some kind of business problem he had to attend to. The next day, they had lunch and when it came time to pay, he had left his wallet at home. Of course, she paid, and it was about that time she was beginning to think twice about this "great " guy she had just met.

When he took her home, she wouldn't kiss him and played the innocent girl who didn't kiss on the first date. He told her he had to be back at the work site that day. When he left, she went back to the caf. He was there. She waited until he left and went in to ask about him.

The truck he had was from an insurance settlement when he had gotten injured on a job. He had blown the rest of the settlement on booze and drugs. According to those who knew him, he was a pathetic looser who was always mooching off everyone. His own mother had turned away from him because he robbed her blind. The construction

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