and that is you. To transform any situation to a better ideal, one has to think and act on it. You may feel dissatisfied with a particular situation, but the only way to climb above it is to find the situation in your heart that you want and move in that direction.
We will only act on what we feel, nothing more and nothing less. That is just the way we are wired. Our feeling's drive us in the direction that we think about. Whether we are fueled by hate, fear, or love those emotions are steering our lives toward a goal. If that feeling is destructive then that is the direction we are shooting for. If that feeling is joy then that is the goal that we will achieve.
What you feel does matter, if you see you circumstance as dire, then your actions will drive you in that direction. If you do not feel deserving of something then you will never get it. Everything comes at a price, and controlling our emotions are just as costly as buying a new Rolls Royce or Hollywood Mansion.
When I first started out in the area of personal development, I thought I had all the answers to making my life an incredible adventure. In some ways it has been miraculous. In others not so good, but whenever I assess why these things that I want to happen haven't, when I look at my own attitude, the answer just pops out and slaps me in the face. It always comes back to the same thing, the state of mind surrounding a particular issue or desire.
That is why I always have my own coaches, mentors, library and such to help me get to where I want to go. One thing that has always happened is that when I avail myself of knowledge and learn to apply it, things do have a way of working itself out.
One is not ready to achieve something if they do not believe they can. One of the rules I work with is to prepare myself for the realization of that which I want. If your desire is strong enough, your faith is in tacked and you believe you can have a thing, then the laws of the universe will act in accordance to that desire and bring forth that which you believe you can posses. Help and guidance are always available to you, the question remains will you reach for the stars or will you allow life to pass you by? A small step is better than no step at all. Holding yourself accountable is a step and having others hold you accountable is also something that one can do.
People get crazy when they get the bug to really achieve something big. Time has a way of tempering that if you do not hold yourself true and with great faith that you can achieve the things that you want. A cheering section is always a good thing. Having others believe that you can make it and do it, adds fuel to the fire.
You can take baby steps or huge leaps of faith and either will work, if you feel that they will move you toward your desires. I have always found that until you do the inner works, the outer desires will not manifest. When the student is ready the teacher will come, that is the most accurate statement I have ever heard.
You can transform your desires into reality. Work is necessary, it can be very difficult. Master your emotions, get clarity on what you want, and get the right information or help that you need, and you will reach your goals.
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