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The mere thought of rejection can cause the typical guy to not even attempt to approach a woman. What if she laughs at him? What if she turns her back and tells him not to even bother before he even gets a word out? With his friends and other girls watching this could be the most humiliating experience of his life....or is it?

I absolutely LOVE hearing women talk about this subject. They will tell you all kinds of opinions on the topic. How sometimes they just don't want to be bothered or my personal favorite " I have a boyfriend". Now sometimes this very well could be the case, but more often than not the problem is you. If you have no idea what you are doing when you approach a woman than you'll be done before you even start. If you walk up with some cheesy pick up line you read in a " How to pick up women" book, you're gonna get laughed at.

What you need to do is understand how attraction works for women and get a firm hold on what does attract them. Shyness and being nervous or timid is not attractive to women. Also you have to be willing to embrace the rejection. I read in a book a good way to get over rejection is to take a week or so and purposely try to get rejected. It does a few things: 1)It will get you over your fear of approaching women 2) You'll see how hard it is to actually be rejected by women if you aren't purposely avoiding it and 3) It will give you an idea of what women are looking for.

Unless a woman is the type of person that prides herself in rejecting guys and gets some sort of power from it, usually it is for a completely different reason. You see, attraction for women is not even really understood by THEM. For example, a girl will say she wants a nice guy and yet she keeps going out with the jerk who cheats on her or treats her like garbage. When it comes to above average looking women, how many guys do you think they have approaching them all the time? A lot, more than you could probably imagine actually. Which is why a lot of women initially reject men. It's almost like a screening process to seperate the emotionally weak men who are just there to buy her a drink in return for her phone number and men who are emotionally secure and confident in themselves.

So where as a lot of women will tell you to give up when a girl rejects you, I say it depends on the situation. Body language says a lot without having to say any words. If you notice a girl at a bar who is kind of quiet or who looks like she is not having a good time and she tells

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