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Love You"

"I love them that love me; and those that seek me earnestly shall find me." Proverbs 8:17 The Bible KJV

Love attracts love. Love searches for love. Love finds love. Love also yearns to be sought after. Seek your mate earnestly and you shall find him. Don't stop seeking just because you think you have found your true love. I am always seeking; I am always pursuing my wife. I will not allow her to forget I love her! I want her to know I am thoroughly attracted to her all the time. I want her to know I have to find her even though I already have her. I just want her to feel pursued and always loved.

Unclear about his role in this two-sided marriage, your partner has difficulty really committing himself to anything; especially to loving you if it means loving only you. This is where he comes face to face with a sharp "Realization" that it is just him and you. He is just so surprised. He simply cannot bring the words "I Love You," out of his mouth. He prefers to put them into your mouth. He assumes you already know that which he finds it so difficult to say. You know I love you; I shouldn't have to say it.

3) "What are you so jealous about?"

"Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them nor serve them: for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God." Exodus 20:5 The Bible KJV

In this passage from Exodus God delivers the Ten Commandments to Moses. He makes it clear there is not to be any other gods above Him. God demands He be the top priority. In other words God is intolerant of rivalry. He is intolerant of unfaithfulness. He wants to be the only God and He wants no one else to get in the way! Would anyone dare to tell God "Don't be so jealous?" Anyone? I didn't think so.

Your cheating partner will over use and abuse the jealousy escape. No matter what you are worried about, no matter what makes you ask him where he has been, no matter what time of the morning it is, he can always justify his actions by saying "Don't be so jealous!" When he gets to the point of blaming everything on your jealousy, he is thinking about what other alternatives he has available. He is considering other activities.

I want you to know you need to be jealous. This is one of man's greatest instinctive emotional pain receptors. It is there to bring us to attention. Much the same as pain makes us aware we are stepping on a nail and we had better be careful, jealousy makes us aware our mate is straying and we had better be careful. Don't ever try to cure your jealousy and never listen to those

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